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important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby CoolPoisons » Fri Sep 30, 2011 5:33 am

DONT GIVE IN

if Ur wife gives U silent treatment, ignore her too and let her know that it doesnt bother U

U need be masculine and head of household. show Ur power and confidence that U wont tolerate that shiid

Somalidii hore Use to do that but the new generation oo la so koray in single mother household became too feminine and mr nice guy

even if the silent treatment goes for days or weeks hold Ur ground and wait

if U respond and apologize for shiid that U did or didnt do, U will be rewarding her bad behavior that she got from her mother or habaryar or someone else in her family

That shiids childish

DONT TOLERATE IT

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby zingii » Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:18 am

sxb, you and i should become (marriage gurus) for the single dudes who have yet to marry.
its about time we share with them what we have encountered and how we have dealt with them.

-the in and outs of the new xalimos that roam the world.
-how to make them your (raaliyo), and how to appear (their baari).
-the steps to take when silent treatment begins.
- etc.

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby XaliimoFarax » Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:25 am

Ceeb calayk two adults acting like primary children. I don't know who is worst her for starting it or u playing up acting all mancho. War divorce rate is already high ee be a man and handle ur marriage if not there is other men out there who knows how to keep a family.

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby Meru » Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:36 am

i cant tolerate silent treatment from a female especially a wife, inshallah i will get a submissive wife :up:

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby CoolPoisons » Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:44 am

sxb, you and i should become (marriage gurus) for the single dudes who have yet to marry.
its about time we share with them what we have encountered and how we have dealt with them.

-the in and outs of the new xalimos that roam the world.
-how to make them your (raaliyo), and how to appear (their baari).
-the steps to take when silent treatment begins.
- etc.
ninyaho i agree

too many times i apologized for shiid I didnt do and everytime the silent treatment gets longer and my authority crushed

Ilahay gave us extra responsible to our wives. made us the head of household, the breadwinners, the protecters, the responsibile ones

the wife has to respect that. if she dont and acts like these focking feminine shiid from the movies, the rights idin dheexeeye that Allah created for Us becomes useless

and we become like the cadaans who are pussywhipped by their wives

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby Beans » Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:49 am

Shows how much respect u have for the women in ur life.

"U r rewarding her bad behavior if u apologize for things u did/didnt do" Really? :?

I feel for the dude who is gonna take ur advice after it clearly didnt work out too well for ya. :mrgreen:

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby CoolPoisons » Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:54 am

Shows how much respect u have for the women in ur life.

"U r rewarding her bad behavior if u apologize for things u did/didnt do" Really? :?

I feel for the dude who is gonna take ur advice after it clearly didnt work out too well for ya. :mrgreen:
beans as a single girl who never been married Uve no right to talk about any shiid

husband and wife wuu inu u dheexeeyo mutual respect and know their role

the wife has to know her husband is the head of household and ninka laga dambeeyo

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby Beans » Fri Sep 30, 2011 7:12 am

Shows how much respect u have for the women in ur life.

"U r rewarding her bad behavior if u apologize for things u did/didnt do" Really? :?

I feel for the dude who is gonna take ur advice after it clearly didnt work out too well for ya. :mrgreen:
beans as a single girl who never been married Uve no right to talk about any shiid

husband and wife wuu inu u dheexeeyo mutual respect and know their role

the wife has to know her husband is the head of household and ninka laga dambeeyo
I earned the right the moment u started to blast ur unhappily bliss here,dont blame me for giving out ma 2cents.I hope the head of ma household doesnt whine and share our shid on a public forum.

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby HELWAA » Fri Sep 30, 2011 7:18 am

Shows how much respect u have for the women in ur life.

"U r rewarding her bad behavior if u apologize for things u did/didnt do" Really? :?

I feel for the dude who is gonna take ur advice after it clearly didnt work out too well for ya. :mrgreen:
beans as a single girl who never been married Uve no right to talk about any shiid

husband and wife wuu inu u dheexeeyo mutual respect and know their role

the wife has to know her husband is the head of household and ninka laga dambeeyo
I earned the right the moment u started to blast ur unhappily bliss here,dont blame me for giving out ma 2cents.I hope the head of ma household doesnt whine and share our shid on a public forum.
:up:

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby zingii » Fri Sep 30, 2011 7:57 am

coolp:

what is a guy to do if a wifey asks for divorce out of anger?

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby CoolPoisons » Fri Sep 30, 2011 7:59 am

coolp:

what is a guy to do if a wifey asks for divorce out of anger?
waa la dajiya

anger wuxu ka yimaada shaydaanka

if she calms down and she still ask then its serious

laakin if she asks when she's angry than why xanaaq

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby CORRUPTION » Fri Sep 30, 2011 8:05 am

coolpoison naagta hadaad si fiican ugu raaxayn lahayd may kaa carari lahayn, waalahi bilaahi oo tolaahi taasi waa iga run, calaacalka nagala tag oo soo baro sida bahalka loo garaaco :lol: :lol:

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby zingii » Fri Sep 30, 2011 8:05 am

coolp:

what is a guy to do if a wifey asks for divorce out of anger?
waa la dajiya

anger wuxu ka yimaada shaydaanka

if she calms down and she still ask then its serious

laakin if she asks when she's angry than why xanaaq
what if the guy happens to be a trigger happy who fires at request?

in such a case who would have the upper hand, and is it likely she would
come crowling asking for forgiveness?

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby CoolPoisons » Fri Sep 30, 2011 8:10 am

coolp:

what is a guy to do if a wifey asks for divorce out of anger?
waa la dajiya

anger wuxu ka yimaada shaydaanka

if she calms down and she still ask then its serious

laakin if she asks when she's angry than why xanaaq
what if the guy happens to be a trigger happy who fires at request?

in such a case who would have the upper hand, and is it likely she would
come crowling asking for forgiveness?
dumarka waa labo mid

kuwa kibirka ka batay who think theyre self sufficient and feminist. waa kuwa who heard 1000 stories about how wives whipped their men in to submission

kuwana waa misakiin and they may argue but if U threaten them with divorce they get scared and submissive. waa kuwo maqlay 1000 stories about broken homes

U have to find out which 1 she is

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Re: important advice for married men about silent treatment

Postby zingii » Fri Sep 30, 2011 8:14 am

^^^

u spoke like caaqil my friend. :up:


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