Postby Hyperactive » Sun Apr 15, 2012 8:21 am
i always question and not cause i doubt but to understand or make it clear in my mind and also to ease your heart and reassure, as prophet ibrahim asked Allah in surat baqara, 260.
وَإِذْ قَالَ إِبْرَاهِيمُ رَبِّ أَرِنِي كَيْفَ تُحْيِي الْمَوْتَىٰ قَالَ أَوَلَمْ تُؤْمِنْ قَالَ بَلَىٰ وَلَٰكِنْ لِيَطْمَئِنَّ قَلْبِي قَالَ فَخُذْ أَرْبَعَةً مِنَ الطَّيْرِ فَصُرْهُنَّ إِلَيْكَ ثُمَّ اجْعَلْ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ جَبَلٍ مِنْهُنَّ جُزْءًا ثُمَّ ادْعُهُنَّ يَأْتِينَكَ سَعْيًا وَاعْلَمْ أَنَّ اللَّهَ عَزِيزٌ حَكِيمٌ"
When Abraham said: "Show me, Lord, how You will raise the dead, " He replied: "Have you no faith?" He said "Yes, but just to reassure my heart." Allah said, "Take four birds, draw them to you, and cut their bodies to pieces. Scatter them over the mountain-tops, then call them back. They will come swiftly to you. Know that Allah is Mighty, Wise."
it should start as early age and what many muslim families failed is to teach their kids their values and believed very well, not to just follow them but also equip them to research and learn how to defend their believes and values with their peers and society too. peer pressure is when one doesnt know why he or she believe/ what they believe. why they have different values and why they have to hold into it!!
and more important to say when they asked about things about their fundamental believes" ooh i dont know, i never thought about why and how, i will learn it myself.."
you cannot protect your kids all their lives, they will meet others who have different values and believes that challenge them!
things changing. i remember when i was growing up worse thing was sattelate tv. all mosques and lecturers talking about how to protect your family from evil satellite dish...etc. instead educating their kids and supervising them... was banned from homes. now we have internet, in every room. kids as young as 5 and 6 using internet in their own rooms on their own beds late nights!!
it's challenges parents to keep it up and sheikhs/islamic lecturers to also keep in mind!