how should I advise him

[grandpakhalif]

Grandpa

If you had the money would marry this hoe?

Why you calling her hoe!

abdiwahab i dont think im ready for marriage and its responsibilities.

[GeoSeven]

If your 20 you clearly know the difference between wrong and right. If you come home drunk to your parents EVERY NIGHT it means you have absolutely no respect for anybody. It means your a shit person. The Somalis acting so freakin immature are the most annoying in the community.

[AbdiWahab252]

Grandpa

If you had the money would marry this hoe?

Why you calling her hoe!

abdiwahab i dont think im ready for marriage and its responsibilities.

Grandpa,

Why are you rejecting half the diin ?

[2ndtoNone]

Grandpa

If you had the money would marry this hoe?

Why you calling her hoe!

abdiwahab i dont think im ready for marriage and its responsibilities.

If that is the case then my brother your are in NO position to give ANY advice.

[grandpakhalif]

If your 20 you clearly know the difference between wrong and right. If you come home drunk to your parents EVERY NIGHT it means you have absolutely no respect for anybody. It means your a shit person. The Somalis acting so freakin immature are the most annoying in the community.

sxb you are right but no need to be so judgemental who knows maybe you will become like this

[grandpakhalif]

Grandpa,

Why are you rejecting half the diin ?

Sxb im not rejecting, maybe if you give me an apartment and monthly stipend then I will get married.

[Jam Street]

The likelihood of having a Somali girl who drinks and does not fornicate is zero.

The likelihood of a Somali girl who fornicates but does not drink is high.

Now you know why I called her a hoe.

[FAH1223]

Needs to be treated for alcoholism

[grandpakhalif]

The likelihood of having a Somali girl who drinks and does not fornicate is zero.

The likelihood of a Somali girl who fornicates but does not drink is high.

Now you know why I called her a hoe.

we have no evidence so refrain from using this derogatory term. this is 2012 sxb, naagkasta hoe miya?

[Alphanumeric]

Needs to be treated for alcoholism

And this.

[qoraxeey]

im assuming all other steps already done like advising her, reminding her of Allah, some times scaring her of hell fire etc.

i say yes kick her out, maybe that would be her rock bottom and maybe is wake up call. enabling her is not the answer if she continues her bad behavior.

tell her brother to pray for her, specially last 1/3 of night, that is every night and never give up dua. and her parents too cause dua parents is mostajaaba.

I agree with Sheikh Hyper

[Jam Street]

Grandpa

Less than 24 hrs ago you called me "a good man who speaks the truth".

Have you changed your position now? If that is the case I'd say you are a flip-flopper like no other.

[caburiye1]

Granpa,

It is very wise to take her to an Islamic country for a while. If she stays here, she would continue meeting the bad friends who let her to a stray. Let her mother take her to Somalia for a while and Insha allah she would be fine. Ilaa laga wado meesha qamriga leh, maraysanayso. allah hakuu fududeeyo. I know how your friend feels and it would hurt every somali man because he is our brother too. Marriage is not the solution for quiting alcohol. Marriage would give her sexual satisfaction but not addiction resolution. Somalida qaar baa waalan. wax walba waxay umalaynayaan in nin la'aan ama naag la'aan keento. I know a friend who has mental disorder but they suggested waa in gabar lugu daro.

[grandpakhalif]

Grandpa

Less than 24 hrs ago you called me "a good man who speaks the truth".

Have you changed your position now? If that is the case I'd say you are a flip-flopper like no other.

you are good man sxb but idkif shes hoe or not.

[maybe]

Let all you do done in love. Tell him to take his sister on a stroll, or somewhere quiet, he should tell her everything he feels in a calm manner, letting her know that she is living in a sin, She's also breaking her parents hearts. He should remind her that what if she died while she was drunk? What would she say to her creator on judgment day? What excuse would she make? I know we are not all perfect, and we shouldn't put down others while they're already down. I hope everything works out for your friend's sister.