It disgusts me that you have "beat her into submission" on there. You know DAMN WELL that you can't beat NO WOMAN into submission. If I got beat by my husband,

that's a dead man walking... Lord be with him. I'm sure its like that with most Somali women on this site and out in real world too.... with the exception of a few weak ones.

The minute the husband raises hand on wife, its always
divorce.
A better answer would be divorce or accept it and get along. She gave you two freaking kids... wtf? be grateful and keep it moving.
I consider myself a liberal man, i put all options on the table and they get to choose.. luckily no one went for that option.
I hope you're not tryna be funny cuz its not. You told your woman "I'll either beat you into submission, divorce you, you'll give in, or I'll have to be OK with it"?? Beating her into submission might as well be rape.
People like you are prolly what's wrong with Somalia today. Ya'll think xoog in wax lagu helo.