Guur Ayuuto

[Minneapolis Mayor]

Is gold necessary? I thought it was voluntary. It still does not exist in baadiyo. Whatever that does not exist in baadiyo is not somali dhaqan. I will pass dahab.

[Hyperactive]

if you find some one marry you for 15 000, let me know asap.i will book her sster. waba dad fi,an.

[Minneapolis Mayor]

Salool iyo Warsheikh,

Hayga troll garaynina the Thread with Luuqad aan lafahmayn please. if its for everybody, af lafahmi karo kusooqora hadii kale Privateka gaysta.

[original dervish]

15k seems reasonable for a low key modest wedding.
Big glitzy weddings are out and austerity in these days.

Try to stretch for a honeymoon.

[SummerRain]

Naag somaliyeed oo dahabla'aan lagu guursadee xagee ku aragtay? It is very much part of our daqan even if the girl doesnt care for dahab, the family expects you to get it for her.

[original dervish]

No gold till at least 5 years in and 3 kids.
Whats the point in heaping gold on her and it doesn't work out?

[AbuAnonymous]

I've heard rag that burned 15-30ks on arooses and the marriage didn't last,15-30k down the drain.

[SummerRain]

FIVE yrs and THREE kids...what is she a factory

[MujahidAishah]

FIVE yrs and THREE kids...what is she a factory

Hadi ciyaal daalaan meesha maxay ka joogtay guuriga hooyadii haa ku noqoto.

[Lillaahiya]

if you find some one marry you for 15 000, let me know asap.i will book her sster. waba dad fi,an.

Adigu khaleejka ayaa degan tahay oo meherka oo keliya ayaa 15k+ ah. Xataa saaxibaday ayaa Hargeysa tagtay oo jaariyadeeda ka waramaysay aroos halkan ka dhacday, kolkaasay ti shaqaalada ahayd tidhi "meherkuna imisa bu ahaa". Markay maqashay inu aruuski bixiye 2 kun ayey yaabtay oo tidhi gabdhaha qurbaha jooga wa cheap

[TATI]

6g's on gold? upfront? Ridiculous! If the b***h wants gold why can't she go out & buy her own?! Why must we have weddings anyway. Must we waste so much money on one night just for ppl to celebrate our love. Weddings are mad corny & all that attention put on you is just embarrassing. It's better just to get the paperwork & skip all that nonsense. Aww but an out door wedding with the birds & squirrels & nature would be soo nice ....but still......... nonsense

[Hyperactive]

lol@ wa cheap.

the thing is, for my experience, not the mahr is the problem. the problem is housing, expensive furniture and gifts. marka hore wa laku so hero ghalini, fatima bint rasoul asw maher was 4000 darham, bla bla. then buuump they ask expensive furniture with professional decorator to hire, etc. and now i heard from my womenfolks the diamond is the fashion. so she wants diamond wedding ring! before you know, costs over $50 000!

yan hadal koku dalinin, is war on your miskeen wallet.

[DANGIRL]

I am thinking about starting ayuuto/hagbad with punch of Single Friends so that each of us can get married when he takes the Ayuuto. It will be about $500 a month and we are 15 guys for 30 months . We need $15000 for each person. We can have one guy get married every 2 months. That would be like 30/12= 2 1/2 yrs. It isn't that bad. Within 2 1/2 yrs, All of us would be married. Each of us can cash his own wedding with the $15000. deposit for the appartment,furniture, aroos, gabaati etc.

Sounds like a good plan wallaahi. Anyone of you want to join us? The creteria for joining is, You must have a job, be single guy and bring Someone that is going to assure you in case you run bankrupt or refused to pay. If you die or become totally unresponsive, you are forgiven. If you become handicapped but still gets money from the state, you pay.

PM me your name and Number if you are interested.

Why bother? Just get her a chair and an apple, I mean thats what these reverts are doing to obtain xalimos.

[Lillaahiya]

yan hadal koku dalinin, is war on your miskeen wallet.

It's a small price to pay if the marriage is a success.

[Navy9]

how come no one is not mentioning the honeymoon, it should be included in the wedding budget?

If one of the couple is rich enough to solely cover the cost that is something but since two people are marrying each other each should at least contribute 50-50.