I don't want you to be no slave

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:02 pm

lol

I can certainly help in that department.

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:03 pm

Fire away Lady Nalia, I'm taking down my notes

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:13 pm

For one, I think you need know that if you pursue this; there is no coming back. I know well enough that if this flops you will stop going to that place all together.

Okay, you HAVE to say something to him. To get over your jitters, think of him as one of your male friends. Talk to him the way you would talk to any friend. Im sure you have good looking male friends, and you got over their handsomeness.
Take stock of the girls he talks to as well. You mentioned that he has girls around him all the time...find out which he pays mind to and which he doesnt.

If you are with me so far....we can go phase 2

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:22 pm

Okay I'm curious what's next.

ps It's not his good looks per se (he's not the only good looking in the world) it's his demeanour and his stare even when there's other people around him/talking to him

Cherine · Postby **Cherine** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:05 pm

BV ma Somali baa?

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:17 pm

Well the next time is talking to him

p.s.
Is he muslim
and what is your end game??
Depening on your answer, we can customize phase 2

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:22 pm

Just continue hee I am sure it will come in handy at some point.

This guy is pure eye candy it will go nowhere, I just don't want to feel awkward every time I go to the supermarket. He's probably not Muslim, who knows maybe he reverted, maybe he was raised in a Muslim home, he is white though so it's all guess work.

Maybe I'll be cured by some miracle, won't know until next time I run into him.

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:30 pm

lool well in that case, it will be super easy to talk to him. You want nothing out of it, its just pure for fun.

Just say "hey, how you doin today" next time and let him take the lead for the rest.

If you find yourself blushing (good thing you cant tell with black people) look at him and just say to yourself "just eye candy....just eye candy"

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:37 pm

When I say blushing I don't just mean changing colour (yes thank God) I mean the stupid, someone punch me in the face already grin that won't go away.

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:45 pm

I think that's endearing and it only makes you attractive in my opinion

Insomniac · Postby **Insomniac** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:45 pm

Yes, lead on a man. What could go wrong? It is just pure fun.

hydrogen · Postby **hydrogen** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:53 pm

Yes, lead on a man. What could go wrong? It is just pure fun.

ms.naliaa · Postby **ms.naliaa** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:58 pm

Yes, lead on a man. What could go wrong? It is just pure fun.

You had your chance.

Dont P-block her

Postby **FAH1223** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 2:01 pm

Maybe I'll be cured by some miracle, won't know until next time I run into him.

You're losing your sense of self for a white dude?

Lord have mercy.

Here's a way for you to not be attracted to him. Or rather, become disgusted. Just think, these cadaans don't even wash themselves after they use the restroom. Think of that and you shall be cured.

Insomniac · Postby **Insomniac** » Mon Aug 19, 2013 2:04 pm

Mate, she stutters and blushes after seeing the dude. I don't think she has time to think about how disgusting cadaans are.

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