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When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bills

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby ZubeirAwal » Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:23 pm

Jasmine, anu kala qeybsano child tax creditka.
:russ:

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby YummyMummy » Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:24 pm

Jasmine, anu kala qeybsano child tax creditka.
:russ:
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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby SelfD » Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:25 pm

Absolutely not. You pay ur half and he pays for his half.

If u work then you f-king chip in.

This is not Somalia in the 1980's...women make more money than men.
what would be the gender roles and responsibilities be like in your household?

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby SelfD » Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:28 pm

She ignored my response, :(
who did? me?

that is fine if you accept the full responsibility of providing, but in the case of dual income how would you and your spouse live?

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby BlackVelvet » Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:28 pm

Jasmine, anu kala qeybsano child tax creditka.
Haddi aad rabtid in aad caruur lacag ka sameysid, wadamaha Scandanaviaga aad ilmo ku dhaldhal.

Jasmine, anu kala qeybsano child tax creditka.
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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby eliteSomali » Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:42 pm

The man is the man for a reason. What is a man if he cannot be responsible for his wife in every aspect? If you want to cohabit, then that is a different story.

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby LMFAOO » Tue Oct 07, 2014 3:44 pm

The man is the man for a reason. What is a man if he cannot be responsible for his wife in every aspect? If you want to cohabit, then that is a different story.
In every aspect? You just want to completely control her. Xalimos, don't get fooled. Get your own money and mind together. :lol:

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby eliteSomali » Tue Oct 07, 2014 4:12 pm

The man is the man for a reason. What is a man if he cannot be responsible for his wife in every aspect? If you want to cohabit, then that is a different story.
In every aspect? You just want to completely control her. Xalimos, don't get fooled. Get your own money and mind together. :lol:
If I wanted to control her, I can control her even with her own money. :lol: GTFO you annoying little thing!

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby Khalid Ali » Tue Oct 07, 2014 4:31 pm

man pays it the woman some times does do the adeeg,, but the Kiiro and car insurance goes from the mans account

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby ZubeirAwal » Tue Oct 07, 2014 4:34 pm

She ignored my response, :(
who did? me?

that is fine if you accept the full responsibility of providing, but in the case of dual income how would you and your spouse live?

Allahu mstacan wa sabrul jameel. A dual-income family would be antithetical when it comes to raising children, I do not want my children being raised by a anonymous person in a day care centre, so I wouldn't even marry someone who would appeal to that lifestyle anyway.

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby Octavius » Tue Oct 07, 2014 4:42 pm

Jasmine what if the woman agrees to a 50/50 split of living costs, out of choice. After all, this is 2014.

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby BlackVelvet » Tue Oct 07, 2014 4:55 pm

Meh then it's half the savings, not as relaxed, all the hassle blah blah blah

What a girl needs is a guy who can look after things and then get her shaqaalo so she can spend her days getting a massage, getting her hair done, shopping and really the things that life should be about.

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby MoAwr » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:01 pm

The person that introduced this >>>>>Image
To jas must have his laptop/PC/iPad or phone ceased as punishment

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby BlackVelvet » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:02 pm

I was the first person to use this on SNet

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Re: When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bi

Postby MoAwr » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:03 pm

Come on you didn't, provide timeline
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