When ppl get married, does the guy pay for the rent & bills

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:09 pm

I did. I remember googling it.

Octavius · Postby **Octavius** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:17 pm

Meh then it's half the savings, not as relaxed, all the hassle blah blah blah

What a girl needs is a guy who can look after things and then get her shaqaalo so she can spend her days getting a massage, getting her hair done, shopping and really the things that life should be about.

What world do you live in. If you want those things you can ger'off'ur'arse and get to work :comeon:

Postby **LMFAOO** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:19 pm

The man is the man for a reason. What is a man if he cannot be responsible for his wife in every aspect? If you want to cohabit, then that is a different story.
In every aspect? You just want to completely control her. Xalimos, don't get fooled. Get your own money and mind together.
If I wanted to control her, I can control her even with her own money. GTFO you annoying little thing!

You can't control her money if you don't control her mind. Xalimos, do you see this predator? Y'all need to get your mind together unless you want to become a victim of controlling faraxs.

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:22 pm

Read the first post, that's the whole point of the thread

I work and spend my money on pretty things and he works and spends the money on all the manly things (the house, the bills, the shaqaalo, the schooling). I don't mind paying for the holidays and the extra curriculars. But he also then must spend some of his money on pretty things which he buys for me and I can buy some manly things for him to show appreciation for his manly behaviour.

You can't control her money if you don't control her mind. Xalimos, do you see this predator? Y'all need to get your mind together unless you want to become a victim of controlling faraxs.

He's OG it's fine, that's what you get.

GeoSeven · Postby **GeoSeven** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:27 pm

Obviously the guy pays, under the terms and guidelines of marriage for any principled man

Then again, if someone somewhere is tragically earning a meagre minimum wage...can't exactly fault them for adapting to a situation :Shrug:

XimanJaale · Postby **XimanJaale** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:32 pm

In my experience, I bought most of the household stuff i.e. bedroom furniture, living room furniture, kitchen appliances etc.

However when it came to the household bill we paid it together right from the start.

Not marriage expert since I got divorced, but from it I learnt many things. And the most important things is to work together in everything let it be childcare, house bills etc.

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:34 pm

Geo7 MashaAllah :blessed:

In my experience, I bought most of the household stuff i.e. bedroom furniture, living room furniture, kitchen appliances etc.

However when it came to the household bill we paid it together right from the start.

Not marriage expert since I got divorced, but from it I learnt many things. And the most important things is to work together in everything let it be childcare, house bills etc.

Did you have a daughter from that marriage or was that someone else?

AbkoowDhiblaawe · Postby **AbkoowDhiblaawe** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:36 pm

The man gotta pay all the bils and rent. The wifeys money goes to savings IMO.

XimanJaale · Postby **XimanJaale** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:38 pm

Did you have a daughter from that marriage or was that someone else?

Yeah, I only got married once. Didn't remarry yet, she did though.

Postby **Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:39 pm

No, the husband pays for everything ...the wife spends her money on cosmetics, salons , gym, and clothes.

It feels great to be a woman

XimanJaale · Postby **XimanJaale** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:42 pm

The man gotta pay all the bils and rent. The wifeys money goes to savings IMO.

What if the guy doesn't work? Or becomes ill etc? Thats why it is always best to share things, for example you do the electric bills, she does water bill, you do gas bill, she does TV bills and so on. Also you can both create a saving account together instead of relying on one individuals savings which isn't fair.

Trust me money/finance is the number one reason why couples marriage get in trouble, so the sooner you agree with a financial system in the family the better the marriage.

garoweboy · Postby **garoweboy** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:43 pm

Smile
How low can you go if money is thrown at you?

AbkoowDhiblaawe · Postby **AbkoowDhiblaawe** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:47 pm

The man gotta pay all the bils and rent. The wifeys money goes to savings IMO.
What if the guy doesn't work? Or becomes ill etc? Thats why it is always best to share things, for example you do the electric bills, she does water bill, you do gas bill, she does TV bills and so on. Also you can both create a saving account together instead of relying on one individuals savings which isn't fair.

Trust me money/finance is the number one reason why couples marriage get in trouble, so the sooner you agree with a financial system in the family the better the marriage.

Postby **Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:48 pm

Smile
How low can you go if money is thrown at you?

war edeb yeelo saqajaanyahow

garoweboy · Postby **garoweboy** » Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:55 pm

Smile
How low can you go if money is thrown at you?
war edeb yeelo saqajaanyahow

you don't gotta be shy yarey

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