My relationship with Somali men.

Tuushi · Postby **Tuushi** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 4:40 pm

Me hauling grocery after work and exhausted.

''Oh abaayo,let me help you''
"Its ok.I dont have have far to go''
''No.let me help.It is nothing'
aww 'Sweet guy,[/i ]Hold up,is he gonna ask for a number after this shit.There is usually no free lunch. in my head.
''Walaal,its ok.I will take my stuff.It is no problem''
''No.I got it''
"Are u gonna ask for my number once u finish the favour?''
Nervous chuckles ''Yeah hehe,is that a problem''

Yanked my stuff and left.

metamorphosis · Postby **metamorphosis** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 4:44 pm

Why do girls make it seem like it is a crime to ask for their numbers? Just say no and move on! There is no need to dramatize the whole thing because it is normal. By the way tushi..I am talking about generally..not you. So what is wrong with a guy asking you for your number?

Tuushi · Postby **Tuushi** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 4:49 pm

Nothing wrong with a guy asking for a woman`s phone number.Pretending to help me while ur intention is to score a number;that i have a problem with.Can others not help people without having ulterior motive?Would he have offered to help someone older and in need of the help?

Theguardian · Postby **Theguardian** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:01 pm

Me hauling grocery after work and exhausted.

''Oh abaayo,let me help you''
"Its ok.I dont have have far to go''
''No.let me help.It is nothing'
aww 'Sweet guy,[/i ]Hold up,is he gonna ask for a number after this shit.There is usually no free lunch. in my head.
''Walaal,its ok.I will take my stuff.It is no problem''
''No.I got it''
"Are u gonna ask for my number once u finish the favour?''
Nervous chuckles ''Yeah hehe,is that a problem''

Yanked my stuff and left.

Not really just Somali men problem - ALL guys do it - when they see a girl they like. Some are just more persist and desperate than others of course.

Hyperactive · Postby **Hyperactive** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:03 pm

tuushi, miskeen ba tahay.

HorseedS · Postby **HorseedS** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:03 pm

Pictures or it didn't happen.

COOL-MAN · Postby **COOL-MAN** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:06 pm

Nothing wrong with a guy asking for a woman`s phone number.Pretending to help me while ur intention is to score a number;that i have a problem with.Can others not help people without having ulterior motive?Would he have offered to help someone older and in need of the help?

there was this guy who pulled up at a bus stop where a good looking xalimo was standing with the small crowd waiting for the bus. He was smiling from ear to ear. He went "abaayo halkee u socotaa?" She didn't reply back. I stepped out from the back n asked if he could drop me at the nearest high street which was like less than 4 minutes from where we were. I was running late for work. getting a lift will surely safe me some vital minutes as my other bus was passingby the highstreet in the next seven minutes or so
Intuu si xun ii fiiriyey ayuu yiri may, uma so do dhina caas :ooh:

My point is, if the xalimo said she was going to France, he would have offered to take her there nijaaska

n yeah there a reason why they offer to help you than the old ayeeyo or poor car less Coolman who could do with a lift to The next bus stop.

metamorphosis · Postby **metamorphosis** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:12 pm

Nothing wrong with a guy asking for a woman`s phone number.Pretending to help me while ur intention is to score a number;that i have a problem with.Can others not help people without having ulterior motive?Would he have offered to help someone older and in need of the help?

Maybe he would..you neve know because you ever saw him NOT offering help to an elderly person. The point is a typical guy would ask for your number if he interested regardless of if he helps or not. It is not a big deal and you always have the right to refuse.

Bandit · Postby **Bandit** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:13 pm

Why can't all men learn you don't get anywhere being nice to females let's look at the god quagmire go to work is no wonder he get so much flower on the show :wow:

Tuushi · Postby **Tuushi** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:18 pm

Nothing wrong with a guy asking for a woman`s phone number.Pretending to help me while ur intention is to score a number;that i have a problem with.Can others not help people without having ulterior motive?Would he have offered to help someone older and in need of the help?
Maybe he would..you neve know because you ever saw him NOT offering help to an elderly person. The point is a typical guy would ask for your number if he interested regardless of if he helps or not. It is not a big deal and you always have the right to refuse.

True but we both know the chances.

Hyper.Maxaa?

Nothing wrong with a guy asking for a woman`s phone number.Pretending to help me while ur intention is to score a number;that i have a problem with.Can others not help people without having ulterior motive?Would he have offered to help someone older and in need of the help?
there was this guy who pulled up at a bus stop where a good looking xalimo was standing with the small crowd waiting for the bus. He was smiling from ear to ear. He went "abaayo halkee u socotaa?" She didn't reply back. I stepped out from the back n asked if he could drop me at the nearest high street which was like less than 4 minutes from where we were. I was running late for work. getting a lift will surely safe me some vital minutes as my other bus was passingby the highstreet in the next seven minutes or so
Intuu si xun ii fiiriyey ayuu yiri may, uma so do dhina caas

My point is, if the xalimo said she was going to France, he would have offered to take her there nijaaska n yeah there a reason why they offer to help you than the old ayeeyo or poor car less Coolman who could do with a lift to The next bus stop.

Waad ka reysey kaas.

Tuushi · Postby **Tuushi** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:19 pm

Me hauling grocery after work and exhausted.

''Oh abaayo,let me help you''
"Its ok.I dont have have far to go''
''No.let me help.It is nothing'
aww 'Sweet guy,[/i ]Hold up,is he gonna ask for a number after this shit.There is usually no free lunch. in my head.
''Walaal,its ok.I will take my stuff.It is no problem''
''No.I got it''
"Are u gonna ask for my number once u finish the favour?''
Nervous chuckles ''Yeah hehe,is that a problem''

Yanked my stuff and left.

Not really just Somali men problem - ALL guys do it - when they see a girl they like. Some are just more persist and desperate than others of course.

The heck then.

Postby **SiennaEarth** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:29 pm

Pictures or it didn't happen.

Tushi how old are you? If you're 27+ I suggest you stop acting qaali before your eggs finish. #JustSaying

saacJabshee · Postby **saacJabshee** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:38 pm

Pictures or it didn't happen.

Tushi how old are you? If you're 27+ I suggest you stop acting qaali before your eggs finish. #JustSaying

you can talk :MJ:

Tuushi · Postby **Tuushi** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:38 pm

Pictures or it didn't happen.

Tushi how old are you? If you're 27+ I suggest you stop acting qaali before your eggs finish. #JustSaying

Woe to anyone whose worth = number of eggs in her.

HorseedS · Postby **HorseedS** » Sat Aug 15, 2015 5:42 pm

Pictures or it didn't happen.

Tushi how old are you? If you're 27+ I suggest you stop acting qaali before your eggs finish. #JustSaying

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