Khayre ba ba samayn shirba kuma imaadee!you could see it a mile away, and yet we fall in these traps; people ask for help, you help them, both tag-team to blame you after
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Khayre ba ba samayn shirba kuma imaadee!you could see it a mile away, and yet we fall in these traps; people ask for help, you help them, both tag-team to blame you after
I suppose we don't know the whole story, but my point was that maybe you were a bit rash with some of the things you said. But at the end of the day you were asked to intervene and you did as you deemed best.What eexasho are you talking about? She left home took money from his account without his permission or knowledge did million other things that I dnt want to say now .. Runta waxay tahay waxan ka jeclahay ma jirto Ino reerkeegu dhisnaado waan ka ogahay furitaan faaido uu so wado ma jirto sidaas baan laba Cisho aan ugu xabeebsaday sidan ugu dhex jirtay smhBro, no offense, that is a b!tch ass move. Reerka maxaad isoogu diraysaa if you were asked to mediate?i felt bad for him after he calaacaled how under appreciated he is blah blah blah, and at some point i said welll adeer if thats what she wants dee sii warqadeeda ha ka so biyo cabtu meesha ay ku ordayso, she also took 1000 from his account that night so i said close ur account too, protect ur money and let her see what being single mom is like
Way kaa gar leedahay because eexasho ayaad muujisay
this brother called me complaining about his wife, he said she left home with their 2 years old child, i asked him what happened he said they had an argument and it ended up warqadaydii isii smh when he refused she took the child nd left so he asked me if i can call her find out where they are since she isnt answering his calls he was worried abt their safety since it was night ... i called her she said they were in a hotel and not coming back unless he accept to do what i want, i promised to her that he is going to do what she wants but she has to come back first, long story short she came back and i mediated between them alhamdulilah all was good
few days after i received txt message from her saying why am i laba wajiile??!! i was like what you're talking about dumaashi? ilayn she read our txts msgs from that night, and there was one time i felt bad for him after he calaacaled how under appreciated he is blah blah blah, and at some point i said welll adeer if thats what she wants dee sii warqadeeda ha ka so biyo cabtu meesha ay ku ordayso, she also took 1000 from his account that night so i said close ur account too, protect ur money and let her see what being single mom is like ... so now she is saying i was encouraging her husband to divorce her ass
i said if i wanted that why was i talking to you 3 hrs nd begging you to come that night? then came to your house next day? anyhow the dude said dont worry she will get over it, i dont really care if she is mad at me or not, all i wanted is them to keep their family together but its unfair how she forgot all i did and focus on that txt message, ps malaayacnigu should have deleted before she seen it
Anywho I don't know why the silly woman is pissed at you. She left the marital home because he was refusing to give her a divorce.
And by you saying give her what she wants and fur, let her see the reality, she still gets angry.
Eeeer earth to miss no aqli, isn't this what you wanted?
frist of all i didnt advocate nor did i want want him to divorce her, i know how painful divorce is nd there's absolutely no winner in divorce! again if i wanted him to divorce her i wouldnt bring her back i didnt really mean it she should have judged me by my action rather than some words that i said in a moment of emotions plus she read other txts msgs where i was telling him to be patient for the sake of his kid nd never consider divorce, anwho i told him dont worry abt me, she can hate me all she wants, i am happy that they are back together.I'll tell you something bro ,never ever advocate for the break up/divorce of a couple.The final decision should always come from them.And that's only when every other avenue to safe the marriage has been explored.To answer your question it sounds like they were more words of comfort for a specific and somewhat tragic situation,so no you aren't two faced.
i said all that, gave them advice and told them the grass isnt green on other side ee reerkii haysta. waano kasta oo aan siin karayay waan siiyay i dont mind that she is angry but she shouldnt ignore my other effort tooYou are not a two faced but you poked your nose where it doesn't belong. No matter how broke a couple's marriage is you never encourage divorce. Besides women always ask for a divorce but they do not mean it and the fact that she came back proves that. Next time advise your friend to be patient and not to get his wife upset to the point where she had to camp out somewhere at night. Also you could have advised her and told her asking for a divorce isn't so wise and neither is carrying your toddler around at night. Do not suggest divorce and I think she has the right to be mad at you and look at you suspiciously from now on. Your "boy" should take care of his household instead of calling you for a back up.
aar waxaasi waa maxay?Saaxiibkaa dhooraha ah waaye nooh
That's Somali for you.you could see it a mile away, and yet we fall in these traps; people ask for help, you help them, both tag-team to blame you after
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