It's unfair.

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

^ same city yes, but another country it's possible. it was hard for me to believe too until I seen it.

Same country or not someone will know your family name. Soomaalida wey is wada garanaysa. Plus tolkisa iyo tolkeeda meyna wada hadlin marki la doonanayeey? Meel cidla ah mey iska mehersaden? Wax aqoon loo lahaynin mey guursatay?

Both of them are to blame. He should have been honest and she should have thought about his character before jumping on the wagon of being a marwo.

Abaayadis, ani xaadir umaan ahayn sida labada qooto qooto ay isku arooseen kow dheh waanan kugu raacsanahay labaduba qaladka way leeyihiin lakiin duqa ayaa inta badan leh lama dheh lol .. Qof dhan inaad nolosheeda ku ciyaartid Mahan ps, if someone doesn't love you for who you are and with ur packages then they can kindly f themselves. Why waste ur time and ruin their life, because that marriage won't last anyways.

[Bella18]

Lol@lama dheh... walleee waad dalacday. Noloshu waa danaysi wakhtigan la jooga.

[TheblueNwhite]

So what if he is Hawiye, is he from a family la yaqaano. Where is his family at? Ina hebel phone call life line wasn't made.

I feel bad for her but she should've done her due diligence. It is not hard to find out nicca got a family somewhere in the world.

[Sophisticate]

Well, my friend, its not hard to find a 30 years old samaroon beauty who uses fancy words, hates men, scared of marriage too

Believe it or not it's true and it happens more than you think.

I assure you, I'm not the only one who matches that description.

hates men

Who lied to you? My day ones - aabo and the bros. They are there for life. Faraxs must be informed that my inner circle is exclusive. There's only one more vacancy left. And not just anyone is worth a royal audience with the king and his subjects. I am loyal to the crown.

[gurey25]

Thats hard to believe, somalis are good with information, and we have networks.
for example, i am pretty sure i can track down the real name, address, etc of people here, just from their descriptions and location.
and since my qabiil network contains, isaaq, gadabursi, majerteen, dhulos, most hawiye, and even suure.

but if you are raxanweyne, biimaal, bantu i will have zero info

[Hyperactive]

where is first wife? didn't she figured out he want to marry? ayadaba maseyri laheyd o qarhin laheyd.

this doesn't make sense.

[Sumubaridi]

^ same city yes, but another country it's possible. it was hard for me to believe too until I seen it.

Naagaha are blinded by qooq before marriage to even do a little background check. When her qooq is gone, she comes to her sense and regret her decision. You can't tell me She will not have found out if she will ask a male relative to invesitage about this guy. If his wife and kids are in Kenya, he must have been going to Kenya a lot and that would have arousen a suspicion. If she will send a male relative, he would have asked guys in his clan and they will have told him about his kids. Stupid women think they can run their marriage affairs without guardian help. That is why allah has appointed Wali to be incharge of her marriage.

Let her deal with it. Its her fault sxb. A girl will only send her relative who will call couple of guys in my clan to find out even my low sperm count let alone children and prior wives.

[Sumubaridi]

where is first wife? didn't she figured out he want to marry? ayadaba maseyri laheyd o qarhin laheyd.

this doesn't make sense.

Sxb its this westernized Somali women who think they can handle their marriage without asking for her Wali's help in doing background check for the guy. She had qooq so she wanted to marry the guy. hada markii qooqii kabaaba'ay ayay hurdada kasoo kacday. I doubt xitaa in ay waydiisay meeshuu kunoolaan jiray. Someone who has children in Kenya will be travelling to Kenya a lot and all his friends, neighbors, clan know his family in Kenya. War waxba qofna ma aysan waydiin. Iyadaa rabtay ninka.

Waxay umalaysay every man is like Sumubaridi who will tell her all his biography sidii in uu allah hortaaganyahay qiyaamaha

[Geeljire252]

Men should be obligated to tell their potential wives if they are married or have kids with another woman. It's unfair to the woman for the man to hide something that could have affected her decision. An idiot hid that he was married until his new wife got pregnant. The poor wife had a miscarriage bcz of the shock and stress. they lost the baby and now he is about to lose her as she is asking her warqad.

The man is a fool for telling her while she was pregnant...













































...he could have told her after she gave birth

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

where is first wife? didn't she figured out he want to marry? ayadaba maseyri laheyd o qarhin laheyd.

this doesn't make sense.

She was in Kenya, he didn't tell her. they didn't have big wedding and all. It was simple kinda like under table lol. so that many ppl don't find out. But she was naive to not do her homework.

^ same city yes, but another country it's possible. it was hard for me to believe too until I seen it.

Naagaha are blinded by qooq before marriage to even do a little background check. When her qooq is gone, she comes to her sense and regret her decision. You can't tell me She will not have found out if she will ask a male relative to invesitage about this guy. If his wife and kids are in Kenya, he must have been going to Kenya a lot and that would have arousen a suspicion. If she will send a male relative, he would have asked guys in his clan and they will have told him about his kids. Stupid women think they can run their marriage affairs without guardian help. That is why allah has appointed Wali to be incharge of her marriage.

Let her deal with it. Its her fault sxb. A girl will only send her relative who will call couple of guys in my clan to find out even my low sperm count let alone children and prior wives.

Niyaw adiga stop telling them ur low sperm that's not lying to them. Ilahay waxba kuma ahan inoo awlaad ku siiyo, calafkaaga ha Iska block garayn.

[Sumubaridi]

where is first wife? didn't she figured out he want to marry? ayadaba maseyri laheyd o qarhin laheyd.

this doesn't make sense.

She was in Kenya, he didn't tell her. they didn't have big wedding and all. It was simple kinda like under table lol. so that many ppl don't find out. But she was naive to not do her homework.

^ same city yes, but another country it's possible. it was hard for me to believe too until I seen it.

Naagaha are blinded by qooq before marriage to even do a little background check. When her qooq is gone, she comes to her sense and regret her decision. You can't tell me She will not have found out if she will ask a male relative to invesitage about this guy. If his wife and kids are in Kenya, he must have been going to Kenya a lot and that would have arousen a suspicion. If she will send a male relative, he would have asked guys in his clan and they will have told him about his kids. Stupid women think they can run their marriage affairs without guardian help. That is why allah has appointed Wali to be incharge of her marriage.

Let her deal with it. Its her fault sxb. A girl will only send her relative who will call couple of guys in my clan to find out even my low sperm count let alone children and prior wives.

Niyaw adiga stop telling them ur low sperm that's not lying to them. Ilahay waxba kuma ahan inoo awlaad ku siiyo, calafkaaga ha Iska block garayn.

runtii sxb waxaa laqaataah in ninku naagta kaqariyo naag kale oo uu qabo sababtoo ah nolosheeda wax saamayn ah kuma laha nin iyo naag kale oo iskaqabo. Wax ayada kagalay oo aan afdheeri iyo waali ahayna maleh. Laakiin low sperm count ayada uu directly usamaynayaah. Marka ma waxaad leedahay gabdhaha haloosheego wax aysan jirin wax kagalay laakiin wixii nolosheeda samayn kuyeelanaaya yaan loosheegin. Adeer maanaa waalin mise Hargaysa ayaa laga marqaamayaah?

Hadii naagta takhtar kuyiraahdo waxbaa kaqaldan minkaaga iyo dhalmadaada, Waan rabaah in ay ii sheegto. Iyadana waa in aan usheego because wixii aan rabo in qofka uu ii sheego waa in aan ana usheego. Humanity Malaga yaqaan tuulada aad kudhalatay duqa?

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

^ lool@ ma Hargeisa laga mirqaamaya

Maya sxb, ee Aniga I just don't believe this low sperm shit. If you had aids you should disclose but this one it's from allah and you can Impregnant woman with Allahs help. Marka Iska ducayso and dnt scare women away.

[Hyperactive]

lol@Sumu. this shows God disnt say " فَانْكِحُوهُنَّ بِإِذْنِ أَهْلِهِنَّ Wed them with permission of their "ahlihina" .

cause men understand each other and asks right question without qooq involved.lool

Cigaal, so the second wife is in Canada? she should sue him for lying to her and put him to jail for marrying 2 wivies.lol

[Macarons]

^ lool@ ma Hargeisa laga mirqaamaya

Maya sxb, ee Aniga I just don't believe this low sperm shit. If you had aids you should disclose but this one it's from allah and you can Impregnant woman with Allahs help. Marka Iska ducayso and dnt scare women away.

Both parties should disclose any medical conditions otherwise it is deceitful to withold info. Better for him to be honest and tell her "there may be difficulties in future but Allah may ease it so are you willing to take a known risk?" And there are many unknowns anyway..

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

^ he can say I was married and couldn't have children. There are many ppl who had children after many years of trying. He doesn't have to say hey I am madhalayse by the way