What you're describing fits what happens in 'Faqashland.' Are you sure you're telling the truth or it's smear tactics meant to tarnish the good name of SL?The hate is deep......they kill each others women and children. Then they have to go back to living with each other in the same towns and villages.
I think this is the problem.....having to see the killers of your family everyday.
Dhulbahante by contrast live in hundreds of settlements without any iidoor and only meet in grazing lands and wells...and yet we have excellent relations with our iidoor neighbours.
Let us just pray that Allah make all those involved hearts see the ugliness of these deeds & make them abhor the committing of such crimes against each other and may this be the last bad news we get from that area....aamin.