[quote="Frank"]Are you all searching the man for a WIFE or helping him financially with the wedding? If itÂ’s financial help here is my two-cent: A real man should never ask for help when getting married. He should have had the lady share his bed with him if he desires her so much and couldn't wait when he can afford to give her the wedding she needs. Seriously the hell with dream wedding, now a days itÂ’s all about building a family and if it comes down to sharing your woman with twin bed as long as the two of you are happy. Sxb, my advice to Foolxumo is NEVER get hooked into materialistic chicks, pick a simple, pretty, intelligent, confident of herself Somali woman and she will never ask for anything other then your loving if she is smart and knows if you were financially cappable wouldn't denny her of the wedding, and she will throw the wedding for herself because you two love each other that much.
As for me ama, if I was broke and want to get married (thank god that will never me the case, as long as I am healthy and working I will be find financially) I would have loved her senseless and do other things for her if you all know what am talking about and let her financially take care of the wedding and be her baby dady. Snaggle in twin bed with ya luv one is of the hook ya'll.
Now ladies, would you marry a man who honestly and openly admits he is broke and says to you, "baby all i got is mad love, strongly want to build a family with you, and my twin bed" or a man who gets help from his mates when getting married to you just so his buddies won't say, "war naagta ayadaa guursatay"?
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Frank, you are totally right aboo. Love is love and money can't buy it. Honestly, there are girls like me who happen to have a mother who cares about the guys financial stability, which I really don't care about that much. As long as I have his love and family careness, money don't matter or having a big wedding. I have seen couple of people who got married and had a very nice wedding who didn't stay together very long because there was no love.
That is just what I think,
Peace ya'll
