[quote="Nagin"]the behavior that Im caring is the BEST WAY...im not disrepecting no one....but it seem most girls I see are just playing hard to get and think they can stand up for themselves.....and that pulls you away from your releigion....
NOT GOOD...and saying what im doing is nor good ...will trust me many guys prefer a girl that understand them then being against with...SO STOP WITH WOMER POWERHOOD you have in yourself or else Farax or non-farax wont look at you has someone to settle down with TRUE FACT
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Nagin,
Listen baby girl, last time I was single was five years ago and it was for good 12 days after I stood my ex fiancé on our wedding day. I'm married and have a little boy. So really I ain't looking! I'm not "Powered", I believe in human rights! I have someone that respects me for being who I am! When you respect yourself, that's when you can respect others and that's when people respect you back. One can be covered and still be a hoe! One makes the cover respectful not vice versa. Things are not always what they seem to appear, don't let appearances fool you. You seem very sweet and innocent, and I hope you meet someone that respects that and will not take advantage of you.
In regards to playing hard to get, what do you mean by that? Are saying women should act desperate? Or are you angry if women want to be educated and decide they want to be more than a housewife (there is nothing wrong with being a housewife and I believe it takes a great deal of a commitment and sacrifice.)? Look matie, you can get your education, be working and still have a family. I work more than 50 hrs per week and still have a husband and a child. I went back to work when my little one was only three moths old. I'm actually working right now and it's 3am and my husband is glad that there is a strong woman by his side. So easy on the judging other women. Who gives you the right to judge anyone? Do you hear yourself? there is always a reason behind people's actions - there is always something that triggers people's behaviours from kind people to murders. It is normally linked to our up bringing/parental guidance. No one has the right to judge and when you see someone gone in the wrong side and loosing Allah's way - you don't sit and gossip/judge about them instead you say a prayer and pray for that person to be guided. One more thing, each time you gossip about another Xalimo that is doing something "wrong", guess what matie, you just lost Xasanaat. The bigger the sin is, the bigger share you got. Be and let be! - well that's what me old man taught me.
love you sis.. no hard feelings!!!!
