anonymous dilemma, HELP!!!!

[TUUG4LIFE]

U KNOW WHAT THIS MIGHT BE HARD
BUT GO AND CONFRONT YOUR FRIEND
ABOUT THOSE RUMOURS AND SEE HOW SHE REACT
OBVISIOLY SHE WILL GET MAD BUT IS THE BEST WAY

[word of wisdom]

TUUG4 LIFE

i know this topic may seem trivial to you but it is just a chit chat n sharing thoughts with people dats all. Nothing important so sorry to bother u

[wStLdNthug]

I FINK DAT PERSON IS ME----

ND I AINT TRYIN 2 USE U---

[word of wisdom]

west ldn thug its not you because i dont know you, u r not a female are u? plus i dont know anyone from west ldn

[BaByGaL_8701]

Why you listen to ppl while you got the actual person infront of u..if you hav doubts about it why not ask her and dont be too bait about just make it nice and easy. beside remember that most ppl just make up things that is not true and allah knows best what she done is not for ppl to judge about it...Horta what you heard is it bad or good??

I would say follow your mind not your heart..

[word of wisdom]

The problem i have is not with what she had done but with how someone who was so close to you all of a sudden changes to you, that's da problem n the only reason why i put this topic on this forum so i get wat ppl are saying. Dats all, no confrontation, no nothing its just a chit chat. dats not even da problem to be loyal to someone to this extent dat u dont wat ppl say bout dem n then they arent dat loyal bck makes u wonder wat kind of ppl are around in this world today. am not bothered walahi but i felt it was a good topic to open.

[BaByGaL_8701]

jus send this poem to her

http://www.zangygraphics.com/picture.ph ... ends&n=125

[FLy]

Yea i've been in ur position and that.. Some girl i woulda called her my best friend a year back now i just see her as a wasted hoe.. serious. She would always come 2 me when every1 else told her 2 bounce or whateva.. But i just ignored her like she didnt even exsist.. now i think ok what i did was kinda harsh coz every1 else turn der back on her (includin her mum) but its like thats the only time she ever remembered me..so i thought u know wa allow u.. i acted like she was buggin me.

and now.. She still a hoe and aint gonna change her ways... i think u should jus distance urself from her

[**weezy**]

i sat time will tell.......................give her a chance because u cud jus be making fixed assumptions and you'll feel like an idiot if your wrong................................

[silver-spy]

to topic maker, friendships are based on connections with people who are nor apart of you immediate family. To begin with as you were 1st friends presumably you guys had something in common, like all friends do.

But since you said shes changed, in that case your friendship changes. You dont owe her anything, and if she wishes to have you as a friend she must respect you.

So basically you should leave her 2b.