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WHAT HAPPENED TO MY LOVE?~~*~~HELP ME PLEASE

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Nawal

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AM A 21 YEAR OLD WHO IS CONFUSED WITH HER LOVE LIFE.
I HAVE BEEN IN LOVE WITH A MAN WHO IS OLDER THAN ME ABOUT 5YEARS AND HE WAS VERY CHARMING AND FUNNY WHEN I MET HIM.I REALLY LOVED HIM WITH ALL MY HEART.AND NOW WE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT ALMOST 1YEAR.
ONE DAY I WAS NOT HOME HE CALLED AND MY COUSIN WAS HOME AND HE TOLD HER HE LOVED HER AND ME AND HIM WERE JUST FRIENDS NOTHING MORE.

WHEN I CAME HOME MY COUSIN TOLD ME THE STORY
AND I WAS REALLY HURT CAUSE I LOVED HIM THEN I CALLED HIM NEXT DAY AND TOLD HIM NEVER TO CALL MY APERTMENT AGAIN AND TOLD HIM IT WAS OVER BETWEEN US.
THEN THREE WEEKS LETER HE CALLED ME AND I WAS HOME,AND TOLD ME HE MISSED ME AND HE DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG TO HURT ME,AND HE CARED ABOUT US.

WHAT SHALL I DO?
CAUSE I HAVE BEEN HURT BADLY I DONT WANT TO GO BACK TO THAT AGAIN
AND HIS TELLING ME HE WILL DO ANYTHING MAKING UP TO ME
PLEASE HELP ME AM CONFUSED

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Belly18

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Hi Nawal. That was really fun story. Yeah me too, I watched last weekend on Jerry Spring show, but do you know what! when you wrote the story, you made it 'Uf'
Cheers

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Nawal

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HI BELLY!!!!!!!
I REALLY DID NOT MAKE UP THIS STORY IT IS TRUE
AND I ALSO GOT OVER HIM BUT HIS STILL AFTER ME AND I AM TELLING THE TRUTH.

JERRY SPRING??? NO YOU MISANDERTAND ME I GUES!!
PLEASE ALL I WANT TO KNOW IS, IS IT OK IF I GET BACK WITH HIM?
WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO?

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Somali Victim

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NAWAL, how are you feeling today? I hope you are fine.
You are who you are and nothing is going to change that what so ever. The way you have said your story it seems to me that your cousine has told you about the phone call affair, right?
Well if that is the case, then you shouldn't have believed her at the first place coz she could be making up all this bullshit that she has told and now planning to fly away with your lover. You Should've thought twice before you rolled the dice
What you also said was that he called you and told about his feelings and at the same time told you that he can't see anything wrong that he did. Its quiet obvious that your cousine had plans to ruine your plans and if you trust her more than him its up to you but just remember one thing best friends make the worst enemies out. I think you should give him one more chance maybe for the sake of your old happy memories that you shared with the person that you onced loved and i'm sure you can love him again just like you did before. Wishing you the best of all.

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LANA

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NAWAAL CALM DOWN GIRL,
iF THE GUY IS FOR REAL THEN HE WOULDNT HAVE DONE THAT.wHY GO BACK TO GET HURT AGAIN? gIRL YOU NEED TO DIGNIFY YOUR SELF!YOU DESERVE BETTER1
PEACE!
LANA

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Mr Cool

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To Somali Victim,
Sis you said every thing that I wanted to say. Well done!
To Nawal,
You could get back with him but this time make sure about his feelings. You should do something that checks if he is really a nice guy as he sounds to you or not and check your cousin too. Some women you just can't trust.
Here is the plan: take the guy to your house while your cousin is at home, you pretend to go out.....
You finish the rest of the plan. I got you started. Don't get fooled by anyway.
To Lana,
How old are you? You need to grow up or get more experience.
I am not saying to hurt your feelings but I am just worried about your future relationships.
Don't ever trust a woman with your guy and watch out from him too. Some of them sound so nice but the reall thing is unknown. I know what I am talking about.

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Walaashaa

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Nawal,,,

Walaaleey qori iyo qiiqiis waa laysla tuuraa. Ka fagoow nin been badan. Waa iga waano.

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Anonymous

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hi
i found your story discusted it my first time i heard in ten years such redicalous funtecy
come on grow up
and this stupit culture(westren culture)
it was wrong first place to have a sharmuud
by now

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Nawal

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THANX TO ALL OF YOU
AND YOUR AFORT
TO:SOMALI VICTIM,AND MR.COOL
I THINK MY SIS IS TELLING THE TRUTH CAUSE I HAVE A FEELING THAT ITS TRUE, AND I DONT JUST FALL FOR STORIES LIKE THAT,
I BELIEVE IT HAPPENED.BUT THE QUESTION IS IF THAT IS SO. WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO ABOUT IT?

TO:LANA AND WALAASHAY
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR ADVISE
ITS REALLY GOOD ONE,BUT THE GUY IS MAKING ME FEEL GUILTY.
WHAT SHAL I DO?

Anon;READ MY STORY AGAIN.ITS NOT TALKING ABOUT RELIGION NOR IS IT TALKING ABOUT CULTURE,SO PLEASE DON'T MISANDERSTAND ME ITS A TRUE STORY.

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Nawal

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MR.COOL

TELL ME PLEASE
WHAT WILL I PROFIT IF I BRING THEM FACE TO FACE
I JUST MIGHT CREATE A TRUOBLE FOR MY SELF,AND THAT IS GOING TO BE BETWEEN ME AND MY FAMILY.WHICH I DONT WANT TO DO
MR.Cool CAN YOU PLEASE REPEAT FOR ME WHAT YOU POSTED AGAIN AND MAKE ME CLEARLY ANDERSTAND WHAT YOU WHERE REALLY SAYING,IT WAS SOME HOW TO ME LIKE YOU ARE TELLING ME TO START A FIRE.IF ITS WHAT AM THINKING THAT YOU SAID IS SO.

MR.Cool DON'T GET ME RONG BUT AM TRYING TO STAY OUT OF TROUBLE WHILE AM SOLVING THE PROBLEM
DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?
THANK YOU ALL
I AM REALLY IN NEED OF YOUR ADVISE
***~~~***THANK YOU.KEEP WRITING

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Khalid

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Dear Nawal,

I don't envy you. In fact, I would hate very much to be in your position. At any rate, it looks like that you have already made your mind about the guiltiness of your boyfriend. Since you have made abundantly clear to us that you categorically deny that the possibility of your cousin not telling the truth. I also believe you are asking us what course of action to take if your boyfriend is indeed guilty of cheating on you. I don't think it is up to anyone of us to advise about that since whatever suggestion we might bring forward it will simply fall into a deaf ear. Don't get me wrong, I am saying all this 'cause you really sound as if you have already made your mind, therefore, I advise you to implement it.

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Khalid

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Dear Nawal,

I don't envy you at all. In fact, I would hate very much to be in your position at this moment. After all, most of us know from real experience the bitter taste of being cheated on. At any rate, it looks like that you have already made your mind and no matter what anyone of us advises you it will simply fall into deaf ears. It also sounds as if you categorically deny the possibility of your cousin may be the one to be blamed for all this mess. So, in your mind he is as guilty as charged. Thus, why keep on asking us any piece of advice when your mind is already made up. Are you by chance looking for some sort of affirmation or support of your angle of view ???

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Khalid

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Dear readers,

I apologize for the duplication of my writing. It wasn't done on purpose. At first, I thought I had lost my first writing, so I had rewritten it and only after I had posted I realized that my first writing wasn't lost after all.

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Nawal

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DAER QALID

THANX FOR THE FEED BACK,OFCOURSE I NEED A ADVISE AND I NEED IT NOW,AND PLEASE I'VE ALREADY BEEN HURT DONT HURT ME AGAIN BY RUDE WORDS AM ONLY A GIRL WITH BROKEN HEART

THANK YOU
PLEASE ANY ONE WHO HAS A SALUTION TO MY PROBLEM YOUR MORE THAN WELCOME TO AD YOUR OWN THOUGHTS THANK YOU.

XATAA AFSOMALI IS OPEN FOR THIS PAGE

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Khalid

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Dear Nawal,

I perfectly understand what you are going through at this moment. And the last think I want to do would be to hurt your feelings. However, I think all I did was to be truthful and straightforward with you. This attitude could sometimes be misinterpreted and I apologize if that was what happened. Nonethelss, I would like to remind you that sometimes the truth is much bitter than salt. And it is very difficult to swallow it. In short, I will wish you good luck in your search for the truth. I wish I could be more helpful than that, but not knowing you and not knowing the whole story would really prevent me from giving you a very satisfactory and reasonable solution to your love problem.

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AlbionChicks

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Nawal!!!

I think u should leave the two timing bastard...there is more fish in the sea...U could get much better...trust me...don't settle for less...it is best for u to find out now than if u were married!!!!

P.S. Players are always players!!

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Lee

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Nawal
You could also do much worst.This situation brings to mind a verse of a song"your friend Attie-Mae tell you all she see,but did it ever occur to you she was tryin to get close to me-ohh oh-ohh-oh-think it over-think it over".It seems you don't know the truth so you are siding with family.That in itself is not a bad thing,but if you where not there to hold up a candle in the darkness then you will never know the truth.Unless one confesses.Remember there must be at least three credible witnesses.As for what you should do is your own decision.My opinion is that you don't trust him and maybee never did because you are leaning towards his guilt.Whatever the case if you cannot trust the man you've choosen to be with,why be with him.Even when you choose to be with someone that is a player 9 times out of 10 you knew they were in the first place.See it all starts with when you ask yourself the ? of why is the person you choose looking at someone esle's anatomy[while in your presense].Even if its not that obvious subconciously your mind maybee ?ing loyalty every other free second[your right mind denies/ignores it].The point is deep down/really deep down a man/woman knows when there love one is cheating.Lusty auras can be seen by one's who are in touch with theirselves.Take some time for yourself[don't rush your to judgement he may not have done what he was accused of]and find your bearing,but most importantly don't lie to your self because then the only victim will be you.Good Luck Lee

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Abshir

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Sup Nawal:
throw the zero out and come to the hero girl
contact me and u,ll my queen forever.

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SiHam

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To Abshir

Do You always try to get hooked up with girls from the internet? You're even more desperate than i actually thought. I've seen what you wrote in couple of topics. Always trying to get hooked!

damn!

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Marsalo

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To Nawal
My name is marsala from spain, I read your article and it was very interesting because I wasn't surprize that men could do such a thing so I will ask you to E_mail me so we can discus this private. marda@juno.com

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nina

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to nawal

girl don't give this loser another chance. as we all know once a player always a player so don't let him do this to u again. i can't believe his stupid enought to say that to ur cousin. if he did care about u then he would never use ur cousin to cheat on u.Didn't it ever cross his mind that blood is thicker then water and that ur cousin would never hide something like that from u. this tells me and he was out to hurt u really bad and he wanted u to find out.

so my advice to u is that there are plenty of fish in the sea so drop this looser and get u a winner.

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Ahmad

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Asalama Alaykum ALL!

TO: Nawal!


...Sister, the day is repeating itself. You sit back...and watch the world: Every mistake, every way, every tiny wheenzy little thing in the world---is duplicated...and re-duplicated and so on and so forth.

Genuinly, the day DOES repeat itself, think about it. Think of something(something you lived)...and see and try to find where it was lived before that...and how it is re-lived over and over again.

We, the Children of Adam, need to stop and say: "Hey, that is what I lived yesterday---and I don't wanna re-live it again".

Don't forget, it is only the mis-fortunes...that are really need to be watched for. The fortunes are...hhhmmm...something you would want to live and re-live, within, again! :-)


This shall be a help for you, if you understand it.


Blessed BE!

Peace, Ahmad!

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hibo

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nawal that was very good, but tell you what you don't have to go back the same thing again, just be his freind and engore somethings he does , you know my self i love this guy for 6 years now and the time that i had chance to date him my brother roide for me i mean this guy means the world me the last 5 years i was just watching him and finlly when i meet him it didn't work i keven tried to have other boyfreinds so i can get out of my mind about him but it is not working i son't know what to do and i don't talk to any body about cuase no one can understand my situation some somalia people don't believe in love you . i wish you get help from some nice writing you bye

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ENOUGH INTELLIGENT

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NAWAAL I AM REALLY CONFUSED BY YOUR UNCLEAR TOPIC SENTENCE AND CONTROLING IDEA.ALSO YOUR SENTENCES ARE RUNNING UP EACH OTHER. THEREFORE, FIRST, YOU NEED TO IMPROVE YOU ENGLISH WRITING SKILLS, BUT IF YOU CANNOT DO THAT PLEASE WRIGHT IN SOMALI LANGUAGE IF YOU KNOW.
SECOND IF I ANSWER YOUR ARTICLE, ACCOURDING HOW I IDERSTOOD IT, YOU ARE NOT IN LOVEBUT YOU WANT MAKE A LOVE. AS A MATTER OF FACT, I WOULD SAY PLEASE GO TO EDUCATION AS LONG AS YOUARE STILL YUONG.
NEXT, IF YOU WANT TO PULL OUT YOURSELF AWAY FROM THIS PROBLEM ASK YOUR FATHER AN ASSISTANCE,BECAUSE IN THIS PUBLIC WEB EVERYBODY HAS A DIFFERENT ATTITUDE TOWARD YOU CASE AND NO BODY MAY NOT EVEN KNOW YOU WHAT YOU ARE,SO PLEASE TALK TO YOUR DAD AREONE OF YOUR CLOSEST RELATIVES SECRETLY.
FINALLY, THIS IS WHAT I WOULD DO IF I WERE YOU:DO NOT LOVE ANYBODY YOU ARE NOT SURE WHAT HE/SHE IS, BECASE HE /SHE MIGHT BE YOUR ANEMY; MOREOVER DO NOT HATE ANYBODY HE/SHE MIGHTBE YOUR BEST FRIEND ONE DAY. IF YOU DO THAT, YOU ARE IN VICTORY!!!
GOOD LUCK TO YOU.
BYE BYE BYE.

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RoXannE

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TO NAWAL:

I honestly dont see tha point in U two get back together at this point. First off, U should have at least asked him whether what U heard was true or not. And He called U back 3 weeks later rite? 3 weeks...common, if he really cared, I'd think he'd be calling ya nite and day. Also, U said he didnt see anything wrong with what he did. Well, that should tell ya something else bout yo man grl, a plaaya to tha fullest, This time it was yo cousin and she told ya bout it, but how bout the next grl he hits on like that, You'll have no way of knowing. My point being, if he aint trustworthy,then you're just setting yourself up for a fall Grl.

Peace ma Sista!
Hope everything works out for U!

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sagal

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HI NAWAR

I don't even why you should consider anything he says if your gut feeling says that he is a bastard?? follow your intinct and use your head at the same time and you will whether your cousing is a liar or not. Then you can make your decision girl.
I have been lied to by a guy who had 2 wives, was thinking that i might be the third!! he had the gall ti lie to me and then tell me that he didn't wanna lose me!! sometimes i wonder if some men are just incapable of understanding that whatever they say will catch up with them one day. The truth will come out. Don't trust any man till he shows you otherwise, and always use your head and not follow your heart when in doubt.
peace
I know this is late but hopefully you've sorted it out by now.

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Iisho

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To enough inteligent

ahahah man you made me lough you had the gut to insult somebody of not knowing english then you wrote some •••• acting as though you have used the best of language

man i think if anyone needs an esl is you
now good luck to ya

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Anonymous

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To: Enough Intelligent

You need an E.S.L lesson , and you needed fast!

As the Somalian said (ISKUMA JEEDO ISLAANKA OO LAAYE)

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Naag

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Isho

Trust me your english isn't better off than ENOUGH INTELLIGENT. Please check your post before your send it and save yourself from embarrassment.

lough=laugh
intelgent=intelligent


Anonymous
The same goes for you too.

needed=need it
Somalians=Somalis


F.Y.I: Both of you need to order HOOKED ON PHONICS A.S.A.P.


Regards,


Naag

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Phenum

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Naag:
you are always there to help the linguistically challenged with their itzy bitzy mistakes.....Good job.
Any chance in this world you supervising my English lit thesis???
phenum

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JZ

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NAWAL, I hope the situation is resolved by now, if not, you have enough advice and time to do so.
peace.

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hadaf

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NAWAL, hope that everything is okey. BUt none asked how truthful is your story coz since your first message almost two months passed and the story is still going on. so please tell us if your love story has emprooved since then or what is your feeling for that man at this time. If your probem is over and that you have decided to close the book then fine somalis brothers and sisters who kindly gave you advice will put their energy to do something else than feel sorry for you everytime they see this story.

Nawaal, Good bless somalis, they are soo generous in their advice. of course we are not perfect but God knows how much we are proud of being somalis.
ONE last word, print messages that we all wrote for you, read all of them, hopefully it will help you in the future to avoid such mistakes like the one you are suffering( quoted your words).

Regsrds

somali fellow

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Naag

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Phenum
A big fan of mine. I see that you're following my work. What can I say?


Regards,

Naag

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Jakatam

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Gabadhaan in lala taliyo ubaahan ee Nawal waxaan ku sheegayaa in aad ku qortid codsigaaga af soommaali si aad uheshid talo fiican ood dadka aan englishka aqoonin eesoomaaliyeed ee aqrista bogaan aad talo fiican uga heshid gaar ahaan aniga.

Dadka kale ee lamidka ah nawaal waxaan kula talinayaa sidaa ineey yeelaan

MAHADSANIDIIN

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Phenum

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To Naag:
Yep, where ever you are you will find me..... Always there, even when you try hiding under your sleeves (change names)!! So, what do you say about teaching your PHONICS to us poor ESL creatures???

To the General audience:
People, Nawaal hasn't be back in here since early August, or if she has, decided to take a solemn oath not to say anything.... So, I assume she is married and is living a happy life!! - lol.

later.
peace and much love and respect.
Phenum.

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Anonymous

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Dear:Sis Nawal
you have no clear proof to kick your lover again always keep it in your mind "you have so many enamies being LOVER".If you love YOUR
LOVER remember you can make him THE MAN of your dreams and your way to that is by sharing time togher and egnoring the rest of the world.bye sis.

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sheekhaaloow

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to nawal

the only way you can be with him is if he want to marry you as soon as possiple go and say
tawak cala laah ok ok ok

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Anonymous

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Please spare us these rubbish as grown up adults i assume you have something better to do. Note that i have used the grown up because there are a lot of adults who have not grown up.So please grow up.
Brother Mahad

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ljou

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let him marry both you and your cousin, how about that?

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ljou

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let him marry both you and your cousin, how about that? a man can marry and love two women at the same time.

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Guled

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Dear Nawal!

If anyone should be feeling ashamed right now,it should be you.you know why? cuz how hell are you inclined to be with someone who is handling you both at the same time..you and your cousine...Ooooh God"what a shame" and How come are u infavourite of having him back in your life? if what you are afraid of is spliting him out of your life,then remember that there are too plenty of good luck to go around and all what i would like to say to you is to hold your head up and confidence in yourself and that will make a sense....beleive me...they say the more you hand over your life over someone carring you not,the more you are very disappointed and go for nothing.


Guled

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Guled

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Dear Nawal!

If anyone should be feeling ashamed right now,it should be you.you know why? cuz how hell are you inclined to be with someone who is handling you both at the same time..you and your cousine...Ooooh God"what a shame" and How come are u infavourite of having him back in your life? if what you are afraid of is spliting him out of your life,then remember that there are too plenty of good luck to go around and all what i would like to say to you is to hold your head up and have a bit confidence in yourself and that will make a sense....beleive me...they say the more you hand over your life over someone carring you not,the more you are very disappointed and go for nothing.


Guled

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sazan

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malin wanasan walaalayl
waxan is jece len wil iga wen 7sano mudo ah 2sano
wax kas tan way noo ficinaayen run ahin tii manan jogin isku mel dada bana naga dheqer shaqeyay oo igu diray oo ku yiri niman ka le bay lasocotaa tan waxay ahayad ben wil kii hadal kii dada ka buwelay oo waxu iri arin tee niii way dhmatay isdagdaga anigu na wan jecelahay oo nolashay da la antis waa abar waxan ka wadaa maden karo waa jacelkagii magarnayo in uu i jecelyahay wali mar kas ta wan wacaa walaal yal maxad igu latalin laheden waa dhibato ihay sat
wax bar shaday dii dar tii ban udayay
wad mahadsan tihin dhagesiga ad i dhagesateen
Rabadan wanagsan hej hej

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Muridi Haaji Ajuuke

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hey i hope u are aight, first of all i believe that the guy doesn't read your mind, in your story u mention that u loved him, however u didn't tell that u did love and when he made a move on your cousin, u were pissed right, well u shouldn't, u shouldn't just told him that u loved him and he would have understood, because male are "damn" as Cosby said the reason is that they can't understand what the female are thinking of or what they want therefore u have say what u want so u get what u wantdon' take it personal that is just my idea.

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iman mahmmed

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i have never read so much crap in my whole life.
what is more unbelieveable then the story is the fact that so many bright and clever brother and sisters fell for it.

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yasir

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To: Sazan
waxay ila tahay inaad hubsatid wax kasta intaadan bilaabin sababtoo ah mala yaqaaan qof sax ah. labadiina mala xukumi karo qofkiina saxda ah. marka waxaan kugula talin lahaa inaad daistid dhibaatada meeshay ka bilaabatay. Hadaad jeceshahayna jeceylkaaga ha khasaarin ee ku dhimo.what i mean is find out the truth. that is the only solution!wixii isku kiin dirayna waa wax (AAkhiro) u yaala. that's my idea,
brother, Yasir.

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Yasmine

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I'm really shocked! What is this dating and boyfriend/girlfriend crap? Have you lost your identities as Muslims
and as Somalis when you all came to the US Canada Europe or wherever? Our country may be inaccessible to us

at the moment, but the least we can do is uphold our culture and our traditions. Take advantage of the
opportunities that are available to you in these foreign lands, pursue your educations, support your families,
but
NEVER forget who you are. Somalis have thus far made a name of shame for themselves, that we're lazy,
directionless, ignorant, and always looking for handouts. Let's end this stereotype and reclaim our pride as a
people. One day we will go back home -- let's hope that when that day comes we've all made something of
ourselves and have something to contribute to our precious land. Insha Allah Tacaalah.
Isku xishooda!

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booasmut

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baby don,t cry keep your head up!!
and i hope we are all with you cos realy felt you.
wish you all the best!!!!!

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shirwac

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abaayo haaad qof fiican tahay wiilkana waadfiicnayn kartaa,haduu yahay nin shaqadiisa kasoo baxaya,waxaan kugula talinayaa inaad ku noqoto jacaykaaga qaaliga ah.
cos he makes u feel good,that,s why i say ya have to fallow him !!!!!!

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liban

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T :Nawal

That man is lair, and player who's an educate, plsee
don't beleive him! do no back him agian
gorget that love and star new love find out some one who respect you and fimaly , relative realy somali man, this just copy Nigger characte or nigger attititude , so leave him alone
there sweet, nice somalian guys, who are look after you
you love
liban

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Hodan

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walaal wan idin salamay
wxan ahay qof da yar waxan ahesata dhibato.....
waxan is baranay wali waxan wada soconay mudo ah 1 sano run ahan tii wan jecelaa.
malin mal maha kamid ah ayu dhahay xirir keni waa dhmaday ila iyo hadan magna sababa
waxan maqali jiray naf waxa jecel alaa dhibay
anigu wan jece lahay man den karo walaala yal maxad igula talin laheden

run ahan tii idin ko kahad laya naftina

hadanu nahay somali manaqano mac naha jacel ka oo wanu layab naa marki anu arag no qof waxa jecel marka hay la yabinina waqa tigaa ihastee....

mar ban waxan isku dayay in an is dilo lakin waxa dile waa ilahay waxan rajenayaa inan idin ka helo jawab ana ku farxoo? bye
nabadgalyoooooooooooooo

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hebel

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who wants a chiar?

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WARTA

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To: Hodan

wa ka xumahay walaashis arinta aad ku dhex jirtid. laakin wax kasto waxba keena e.. miyaadan qancin wiilka mise mid kale ayuu bartay,,,labadaas arin ayaan tuhmaya..
walaashis caloosha iska xiro he mid cimaamada iyo macaawista u dhuujisan tahay aa irida ku so garacaayo mar dhaw...{qof dacad ah wax ma ka halawan ee ILAAHAY aamin}

CIAO

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Anonymous

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Salaam everybody,
Sister Nawal im sorry to hear that you are having such a problem and i hope itll end soon..I think forgivenes is a good think to do and leave them to Allah (whoever is liying) then he or she will never get on with his or her life so far they are hurting people who trusted them....
With all my wishes and may Allah help you Insha Allah......

your sister in Islam

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xxl

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Nwal don't listen 2 no 1 listen only 2 your heart
and mybey u coz is in love with your man and want you both 2 break up
so see the setuation from evry angle coz it huppend with me before
my best friend done that 2 me so it is not u alone girls
we guys also get hert
peace and love

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UNKNOWN LOVER

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HI NAWAL IAM REFFERRING TO UR ADD COZ IT MOVED ALL MY HEART AND SOUL, IT SEEMED TO ME PRETTY SADNESS TO WHERE U WERE COMING FROM,AND I HOPE THAT U DID THE BEST THAT I COULD 'VE DONNE IF I WERE U.
SECOND REMEBER LOVE IS A LUCKY OFTEN VERY EXPENSIVE, REGARDLEES TO WHOM U FELLIN IN HIS ARMS, SECOND, AGE IS DIGITAL, AND IT ONLY SEPARATES, HUM,AN TO THIER EXISTANCE, AND I SHOULD SAY THAT U ARE PRETTY LUCKY TO FALL IN LOVE WITH OLDER MAN WHO CAN ATLEAST TAKE CARE OF U.

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MAD MAC

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My recommendation is find an open minded Galka who will be kind and loyal. Of course, since I am Galka with a fondness for Somali women I guess that makes me kind of biased.

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SHAWN

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YAARABA INUU HELLO NIN NAAG LA AAN AH SOO DHAWOW

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KHALIL

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Hi Nawal:


I guess you already made up your mind and all you want is re-assuring or comfirmation. Go ahead and go back to him because that is all you wanted. right?.
I personally approved your going-back ;-)

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Anonymous

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Nawal
sis aren`t u muslim girl what are u talking about
sis nomber 1 it is xaraam 2 if u looking for man get xalaal one who is same age as u, and don`t mansion the name of going-out it sounds like bad way. and, please don`t make your story pablic again,use your brain that is why allah give it to u don`t ask anyone advice.if u not sure anything go back to your diin (Quraanka). that is my advice

Hamdi, from london.

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Hamdi

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To-somalian Girls;

sisters do u know that somalian boys`s forums talk about something usefull. why can`t we do samething insted of talking about man, and other childlish stories. please late us be strong, and intelagent
and ex-cheng aides about somalian girls problems and give advice each other about education, jobs
even about the feuter of our countery.as u know somali women have history about somalian revalution like xaawo-taako.and,we`r the senter of our sociaety, please ones again let us be usefull. your muslim sister.H Hersi

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AMAL

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NAWAL YOU ARE A DUMB PERSON FOR LETTING A MAN DO THAT TO YOU AND THEN ASKING FOR ADIVCE . FIRST YOU ARE 21 YEARS OLD ,YOU SHOULD NO WAHT TO DO AT THEY DEAND OF THE DAY ,USE YOUR MIND.

AMAL

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safiya

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hey,nawal.
i just read your article and it was shoching.anways somalian brothers act like they civilized and they think if they cheat that they are cool.Sister don't just leave him without a fight,so let him learn his lesson by finding someone else then get rid of him.I sweare he will never do that to any other inocent girl.or you can hurt his feelings more by dating his best friend or someone close to him.An eye for an eye.

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Yaquta

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Dear Nawal;
Macaan waxaana kugula talin lahaa in aad ninka aad sheegayso aad iska dayso sababtoo ah hal mar haduu kaa tagay markalana wuu kaa tagi doonaa, qof adiga kuu qalma oo waxaad raadsataa aanan kugu ciyaaraynin, nimanka waa dad xun hadii aanan la iska xaarxaarina korkaaga ayay ku tumanayaan.
Waxaan kuu rajaynayaa nolol fiican.
Bye.

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Yaquta

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To Hodan
Abaayo salaan kadib aad ayaan kuula yaabay, nin miyaad isu dilaysaa? Sidee kaa noqotay waxaad kaa dambaysa noloshaadii oo idil, inta xayxaydatid nin kuu qalma meelaha ka dayo qof kaa tagay wax uu kuu hayo malahane, tus inaadan u baahnayn, good luck.
Bye.

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Yaquta

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Asalamu calaykum.
Salaan kadib, wiil ayaan xiriir la leeyahay aad ayuuna ii jecelyahay in aan sanad ka dib is aroosno ayaan ku balanay laakiin aniga ma jecli wiil kale ayaan ka helay oo aad u qurux badan inuu ila saaxiibo ayuuna rabaa laakiin si aan saaxiibkay ugu sheego kala tageena maaqaan, noloshiisa wuu iga jecelyahay.
Maxay idinla tahay in aan sameeyo.
Yaquta.

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hamdi

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dear sisters are you still going on about men but i thought you were smarter then that where is your intellegents don't you have anything better to talk about i am so ashmed that you somali women comeing in the foriengh coutries and adabting their cultures it wouldn't make you smarter if your that sick and that deperate for a man then you should lick their shoes instead of puting your selfs in public and talking about this nonsense i think that you all watch too much jerry springer show. please do me a favour i share with you in the name of the somali women change the subject that is other than men. and stop these creative stories that you are making up. and think about what i said to you about exchanging ideas and talking about something useful.

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Najma

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Hi nawal


it seems that you are hurt,about what your couisen told you. my advise is to follow what your heart is telling you.

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Najma

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to naag

you're such a loser,do you think your English is better then the rest, people do make a spelling mistake, i don't like people like you who think they're all that, but guess what you not. you're just a jerk.

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