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Married and NOT happy

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Help..

Waxaan gursaday gabar 3bil ko hor, waxaan nan kubartay telephoneka. Itii aan is naqaanay maanaan is arki jirin waayo laba magaalo ayaanu kaladaganayn, aniguna xoogaa wadaad baan ahay oo I dont believe in dating. Hada waxaa ka soo wareegtay 3bil, gabadhu imay deeqin…waxaan jeclaan jiray gabdhaha xoogaa yara xirka leh iyadu waa xayiis naas kuma yaale bari maleh…in other words physically she doesn’t turn me on. I sometimes like chatting with other girls on the net….What should I do help please. Did I get married too soon??

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ATHAAR

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HA HA HA HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

YOUR SO FUNNY.
MAXAAD KA HADLEYSAA.

UGU HOREYN WAAN FAHMEY TELEPHONE AYAAD KU BARATAY OO MA AADAN ARAG BALSE MARKII AAD MEHERSANEYSAY MIYAADAN ARAG. RUNTA SHEEG .
SHEEKADA BEEN IN AY TAHAY WAA LOOJEEDAA Ok.

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Married and NOT happy

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To Athaar,

Walaalo qalad hafahmin, gabarta hal mar waan is aragnay, before nikaax...laakiin it was too late, and I didn't want to hurt her feeling...

waxaan sameeyo garanmaayo hada.

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G4

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M&NOT HAPPY

waryaa waa ninka maxaad ku hadlaysaa waa maxay bari male ama naas male, maxaad tahay waraabe oo waxaad doonaysaa waxaad cuntid. anaa ku la talinayee xaaskaada dhaqo wadaadna matihida waxaa tahay wabiin, maxaad kaga dhigtay wadaadadu beerka xaydhale waa cunaan. maxaad ku falaysaa mid baruuru jabisa oo socon wayday.

cimrigaaga oo dheeraaday geel dhalaayana waa kutusaa.

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AKHYAAR

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M$NOTHAPPY.
MARKA HORE NIN WANAAGSAN AYAAD TAHAY .SIDAAD DOONTAANBA ISKU BARTEE HADDII AAD TIX GELIN SIISAY GABADHAA OO ADAN RABIN IN AAD FEELIN KEEDA HURT GARAYSO. HADDII AAD INTAABA GARATAY MIYAAD GARAN WAYDAY IMINKAABAN GABADHA GUURSATAYE ISKA KORSO OO DHIBAATADII AAD UGA BAQAYSAY IN AY KU DHACDO HADDII AAD TIDHAAHDO IIMA QALANTID MID KA WEYN AYAAD U GAYSANAYSAAYE HA SII DHAAWICIN GABADHA QALBIGEEDANA WAX HA U DHIMIN

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Guulwade

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waryaa nas iyo bari looma baahna haday
gabar fiican oo marka aad guriga timaado
ku soo dhaweynasa tahay ee xaaskada dhaqo nin yahay
wadaad haddad tahayna mid fiican baadan ahayne iskana daa shukaansiga ogowna in aad xaas tahay
waa maxay waxa aad ku hadleysaa imanka ha isaka qaadan ilaahayn talo saaro
gabadhana sifiican u CATIIR yaa rabi yastur amuurunaa

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Anon

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To M& NOT HAPPY

Macalinka Big boops Beesaa kaa xigto just go to the Dr's office with her bick the size you want and be happy

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Marriedwomen

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Do you love her as person? If you noticed that she did not have a buttock and breasts for the first time you have met with her and she falls short of the physical goodies that you wanted. if so why didn't cut off the relationship at time. i just don't understand the fact that you have married an innocent lady and went through all of that troubles and have taken away her girlhood and soul and now, you are disappointed with her because she does not have those two parts(they are not even organs, they are parts).

Do you want a woman because she has a buttock and breasts? Or, do you want a woman because she is a decent human being, with good qualities?

Probably, she was a very naive and patient girl to have married a man whom have she seen once and have gotten to know him over the phone. Because, this is the end result.

I know our religion does not permit any physical activities between men and women who are not married...and I obsolutely agree.........but how do you avoid disappointments like that to greater issues like a woman marrying impotent man or a man with disfunction dick.


I just don't get it.........I feel sorry for the girl.... I can't imagine my husband saying that behind my back.....


In my opinion, you are nothing but a disgrace to men race and disappointment to the woman.


Treat the others how you wanna be treated..

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Iman

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just do the sister a favor and let her go now before its too late if you are not even attracted to her. it will bring more problems later on. I mean, if you don't like her now, most likely you wouldn't later. So quit cheating on her and let her go. (yes, talking to other ladies on the net is cheating)

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SomaliMan

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MarriedWomen:

Agree with u 100%, the person who posted this article is probably a young ignorant guy coming of age & married (if true) without maturing first.

As they say " it's not what's outside that matters but what's inside".

Brother, you need to grow-up first before undertaking such a major responsibility, you marry for the long haul, not a piece of decorative to be looked at.

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LADAN

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I agree with SOMALIMAN AND MARRIED WOMEN

Macallinka dhiisha waxa ku jiro dhididkeedaa laga kasaa kow dheh. Run inaa sheegeynin sheekadaada lee aqri mar kale. Wadaadaan ahay iyo naagta xaga iyo xagay ka qaloocan tahay.

Mid sideedo ku rabo ay helee asxaan usuubi waqtiga ha ka dhumin.

Runta iska sheeg markaa cabaadkaaga inta ka buuxisid oo gurigaaga ku noqotid maxaa kudhahdaa(ama gurigaaga ka soo qor) ABAAY MACAAN ADOO KALE MAA LA HELI KARAA AMA WAX UDHOW.

OROD NIN RAG ISKA DHIG OO GOAAN IYO TALO LEH


WASALAAM.....

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Anonymous

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Waraa Wadaad, ma ku dayday fast food? that will
give her bari weyn. Tan kale naas uur lee kaa
xiga...is habee ninyahow oo stop crying!

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Gabarxanaaqsan

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saqajaan
intee lagu arkay nin naagtiisa dabadeeda iyo naaskeeda sheegaaya.
War bax oo dhaqo naagtaada. naas iyo dabo naag looma guusdo. Feeling ma lihid ka kac.

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Ibraahim

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To; all

Walaal wacan oo wanaagsan, waxaa quman in aanad faalayn jirka xaaskaaga. Balse aniguba kula midbaan ahay oo xaaskayga oo ii haysa carruur ayaanan jeclayn,waxase qadariyaa carruurtaa aan ku dhalay qurbaha iyo masuulka aan ka ahay.Waxaase intaa iidheer in aan jecelahay gabadh iyana i jecel laakiin diiday in ay noqoto second wife, gabaadhaas oo aan jeclaa intii aanan guursan sababtuna ahayd iyada oo la guursadey markaa iminkana lasoo furay.

waxaan sameeyo ma aqaan.

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Ibraahim

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To; all

Walaal wacan oo wanaagsan, waxaa quman in aanad faalayn jirka xaaskaaga. Balse aniguba kula midbaan ahay oo xaaskayga oo ii haysa carruur ayaanan jeclayn,waxase qadariyaa carruurtaa aan ku dhalay qurbaha iyo masuulka aan ka ahay.Waxaase intaa iidheer in aan jecelahay gabadh iyana i jecel laakiin diiday in ay noqoto second wife, gabaadhaas oo aan jeclaa intii aanan guursan sababtuna ahayd iyada oo la guursadey markaa iminkana lasoo furay.

waxaan sameeyo ma aqaan.

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Gaaz-maaz

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To. Married & not happy...

Intaas lee haa..? intaas maad gabar dhan ku nacday!. Adigaaaaa, waraa hoo taladan, nacasyahow gabadha ha sii deeyne.

Anaa dhinacaas experts ku ah na weeydii - sali calee... fadlan samee waxaan soo socda, adaa is bedel weey arki with in two weeks !.-

-Subixii aroortii sii qaado malab ah.
- Adiga sadex saac markeey tahay quraacda ugu keen sariirta, quraacdana waxaad ka soo badinaysaa buuraha & mac-macaanka.
-adigaa afar saac meelahaas ukeen hadana qudaar, sida salat, moos, tufaax iwm.

- Qada waxaad ukeentaa cunto dhan-dhanaan ah, sida dooro la shiilay & baasto. xasuusana ineey qadada ku cunto caano, biyaha ka ilaali.
-galabtii sagaal saac meelahaas ukeen kage & caano cadees badan leh.
-habeenkii fiidkii laba saac meelahaas ukeen galeey shiidan caanana haku fuuqsato. Hadana inteesan seexan ka gaarsii aalbtii rabaaniga ahayd.

Xasuuso in aysan sariirta ka kicin labadaa wiig, hadeey markaas meel walba ka dai weeydo kabta korkeeda soor iisaar...

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Ahmad

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Hi, Married and Not Happy!

You see, I sympathize with you and your situation. You married a girl...under the wickedness of lust. THIS is `karma`...so you are only getting what you deserve.

What, you chose "not hurt her feelings" and married her...so what do you think now that you messed her chaste? Don't u think it's gonna hurt a little more? Isn't it too late to be unhappy??? I say live and live well...and be a man and live UP to your responsibilities! You said "I DO"*...if u didn't mean it---she's not your wife and let the poor girl find another. IF you meant it, then you can only blame your lust for this! You see, either way, you loose! Sorry...to be bitching, but it's the truth.

*-"I DO"...meaning that you agreed to be her husband! NOT the X-tian way of "I take you, Blah Blah, to be my wife"-kind-of-I DO :-)


Blessed BE!

Peace, Ahmad!

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Waliid

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To. Married & not happy...

Marka hore: Ka xaab xaabi hee!

Marka xigga: Iimaanso gabadha oo eeg kartideeda Allena bari inuu kuu macaaneeyo. If her outside doesn't say anything to you, what about INSIDE her! man!! (I mean her naagnimadeeda, karti & dhaqashadeedaba)

Peace Waliid!

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gabarxanaaqsan

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gaas maaz,
man you know how to tread a woman.
I gave you 10 points.
could say better what you said.

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iikar

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Macalinka iska badal qoftaan haday ku qancin weyday. Aduunkaan qof oon ku qanacsaneyn lalama noolaan karee. iska xoor balaayadan aad ku sheegtay inii buris horay iyo gadaal looga bug-dhabi ..

ah ha ha h ah ha h ah....... nin may ahaan jirtay uyada? maxaa waaye naas ma'leh, bari ma khabto......buri!....bakhtida!!.......... meesha naag aa la raadihaa qori maa la rabaa.........yaab waaye.......

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LADAN

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IIKAR-AMIIN-IIKAR ABOOTADAA DABA ROOR

BURI KUMA LOHOO!!!!
IIYDAA BURIN LEHEED BACAWGAAN, BEENAAS USHEEGAA MAAHINE. NIN WAX BURIN KARO HADIIS YAHAY MAA INTA KU SOO OYLAHAA CAWO IYO MAALIN


WASALAAM...

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aakheyrto

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Ladan
runtaad u sheegti buri lee iga dheh maxaas mooday dooro badar aas siiyo.
aymaana in lagu celiyo waaye igaarka iikar waas halaabay.

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nina

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married and not happy

i think that that allah is testing u, so don't quit the game before u pass. being not happy u say, well i think u brought it to ur self.
before anyone makes a major decision in thier life like marriage u should closely examine that person before u decide to tie the knot.

i have 2 questions:
1. is she good in other ways?
2. lets say u were her and she was u, what would u feel about this?

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nina

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married and not happy

i think that allah is testing u, so don't quit the game before u pass. being not happy u say, well i think u brought it to ur self.
before anyone makes a major decision in thier life like marriage u should closely examine that person before u decide to tie the knot.

i have 2 questions:
1. is she good in other ways?
2. lets say u were her and she was u, how would u feel about this?

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Durkheim

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Asalaaam clm sxb


Talo waa lagu siiyey sxb, laakin aniga waxaan ku dhihi lahaaa: haddi qofta aadan kaga qanacsaneyn oo kaliya "jirka" oo aad jeceshahey naago "jiroos" ah haddii ey warkaaga yeeleeso" badarka sida caanaha, ukunta, subaga & waxyaalaha lagu cayilo siii oo ugu roonow, nasiinnana sii, sariirtana ugu roonow, markaas weey cayile oo jiroos noqoneee.

laakin dhibaatada waxey dhacee, markii eysan rabin cayilka, taas adda yaqaan sidaad ugu dabaalan laheed.

Nasiib wanaaagsan sxb.


Durkheim

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Enough intelligent

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To: Guursade aan faraxsanayn,

walaalow horta waxna lama jeclaado waxna lama naco.Allaaha ku abuuray ayaa kaa mudan jecayl, taas markaad fahamto ayaad liibaan gaadheysaa!
Haddaan usoo noqdo arrintaada talo bixinteeda, haddii markii hore talo ku seegtay hadda yaanay ku seegin. Waxaan ka wadaa, haddii aad inanta markii hore ka adkaan weyday inaad ka joogto oo aad gashay haddana naag taada dhaqo adigaa sharaf mudane,waayo waxaa laga yaabaa inaad waxaad jeceshahayna shar kuu noqon karaan waxaad necebtahayna khayr kuu yihiin.Haddaba inanta ka ilaali inaad tusto wax niyad jab ah waanad liibaaneysaa Insha Allaahu.
Inanta qaab dhismeedkeeda( physical appearance)dhibaato malaha oo way naaxi doontaa, haddii aad doonayso inay naaso kasoo baxaan, hoor moonnada jidhkeeda ku yar ee sababa inay dumarku yeeshaan naaso waaweyn iyo badhidaba ayaa kor loo soo qaadi karaa haddii aad dhakhaatiirta latashato, waana lahubaa kedibnna aad ayey usoo baxayaan naasuhu dhibaatana malaha.
Waxa ugu muhiimsan waxaa weeye talo iga hoo, haddii ay ku jeceshahay hasii deyn naagtaas ayaad cadow iyo nacabba kaga kacaysaa iyadaana ku dhaqaysa Macbuudka idankiiye.
Khayr ayaan kuu rejaynayaa.
Fadllan ii sooo ducee markaad hesho farriintan iyo haddii aad ka faa'iiddoba.

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raxo

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M & not H
I understand what you are saying.... and It is too late to have second thoughts right now at this point ,,,, so I think if you get to know her a little more better would help.... its not only physical side that turn on a person... its also personality. I am sure if you would know her personality she would appear a little more sexy and attractive

There some girls who are physically prety but couldnt turn you on because personality and brains are out there somewhere. so
please dont be a fool try to make the best out of this marriage.
another thing if you didnt like her at first you should have told her the truth... being a shiik and all you know allah perfers the truth first and for most. peace and love raxo

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hebel

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and you call yourself a wadaad...
give a one stinking, kinking, freaking,choppy,!@#$%^&**()_++ break.

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