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WADANI

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FIRST OF ALL, WE ARE NOT COMPLAINING.WE ARE NOT WHINING. WE ARE NOT EVEN CRYING.WE'RE SIMPLY TRYING TO
EXPRESS A POINT.ABOUT WOMEN.
What's up with this chivarly crap? why is it men opening the door for women? why is the man always paying? and why deos the
man have to make first move? we live in an age of femenism equal rights for all. this includes romance. yet 85% of the time,
man is expected to make first move. while women wait impatiently on the sideline. while she waits and waits don't women
realize by now that most men are chicken "••••".men are paranoid about romance,the one thing they really care about. men
fear rejection. maybe because it hurts the delicate male "ego". i think for ones it would be nice if the women bought the man a
drink, or asked him to dance, or grabbed his ass. men don't bite ladies. they're just like you, looking for someone special.
someone to spend time with, to fall in love. men are not all"assholes!" all guys do not want to "score" the first date. why do the
nice guys have to pay for the "assholes" mistakes? a girl is hurt by dating "•••••••" and later becomes hesitant if a nice guy
show interest. men know how to treat lady right. ones they get past the first move, men are at ease and their true feelings
emerge.Ones a mutual bond is established men can fall in love. to end this, we're not complaining, we're not even
crying.infact,men enjoy being chivalrous,it adds romantic flare to life. but once in a while, men would like the favour to be
returned.it takes the stress off.

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caraweelo

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Haven't you heard of a "women's prerogative"?
A man in charge?
Let me let you in on a secret.
We choose you.
We pretend you chose us.
You chase.
We pretend to get caught.
You beg to see us all the time.
We pretend we don't have time.
You camp out infont of our houses!
We pretend to let you in.
You ask for a relationship.
We pretend to accept- unenthusiastically!

See that is how the game is played. Why change the rules.
Men have always had the uneasy task of appearing to be in charge of the pursuit. I don't think the fragile male ego can handle it if we conduct our hunt in the open.

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LaBella

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You go girl Carawelo!!! Don't give out all the secrets girlfriend ;).

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Alex

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WADANI passing the first hurdle is where most of us fail. Is there a way they can give us a waiver if a man fails the first hurdle repeatedly? If someone can make the first step a take home exam would be nice too.

Caraweelo itís not a secret we knew that our fathers have told us long time ago. How did he find out? Well our mothers gave them the pillow talk.

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SAGALIINA

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So wadani, can i grap your ass??
I will love to ask u out and then we can get married if i like you!

Wadanai, pls dont run!,
pls come back
ok, i will play games with ya
i wont be so bold ok.
I will be the feminine ok?

Men,Men, men
Wadani, to tell u the truth if a woman takes the role of man, (asking out, grapind asses, taking the liberty) men would run so fast b4 u finish your sentenance. So hon i am all for asking men out, and paying MY SHARE (WE GO DUTCH), for drinks, melas, etc, but they find it very intimidating.
so meel ann nimanku u raacno ma leh!! MAKE UP UR MIND PPLE OK!!

PS DONT MIND OPENING THE DOOR FOR YOU, BUT I WONT GET UP OF MY CHAIR FOR A MAN!!

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Jeyte ahaa

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Waa waray waryaa wadani pls don't tell the girls the secret's of Men. see camal adi shukaansigaas luuq naga galinoosaa maxaas ku daaray adi.unuka marabno naag oon shiixeynin oo dibka naga khabaheyso, Iska dhaaf uyuka irdaha waa u fureynaa hadiisba wax noo ogolyihiin. sagaliina adi masheexeysidbe khamri aan cabaa aas ku faanooysaaba.khamri wax lagu faano as nokhdaymiyaaba wah,ilaahay kacabso iska dhaaf khamrigaaneyto.and don't grab wadani's ass.
until then nice posting.

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Anonymous

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BY asad farah jimaale,november 21,1999.08.00.pm:

waxaa dhibaato iga ahysato xaga la shekaysiga gabdhaha o aad bana uga xishodaa gabdhaha.waxaan
talo ka codsanayaa wayoarag wayoarnimo laaneyba
waa mid aniga ihaysato.

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loser

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caraweelo you are simply most of somaligirls who are in confusion and they don't know waht they want and i bet you don't even know your self so we all know(guys) you all know(women) where you will end up you will end up with loser and lead anhappy life with social and financial difficulties so come out in reality and and think about where u will be 5 years from now i am sure you will be cooking and and cleaning for loser so

i feel sorry for you not knowing where u going

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Caraweelo

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to loser;
(your name-given by self- not me...hence only you know it's apropriateness)
Why should understanding the rules of the game make me prone to marrying a loser? and on top of that...five years from now????? How do you figure than one out?
Au Contraire! It means I am wise to the weaknesses and will utilize them for my benefit.
If clueless, can't help you there.

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ali

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>horta waxan ka codsanaaya Wadaniyey fikradaha aad soo qortay in aad wax kabadasho adgo oon ka xuman u arkin aflagado.
aad iyo aad baan ugaxumahay.

<jeyte (waa waraay waa waraay waxaan ku haistay naag laakin markan arkay magacaga wan qoslay qoslay qoslay.hadaladada abba sida ad u hadshid wax kabadal.
wa Talo abba Waanoo.

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WADANI

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TO THE PERSON(S) NAMED ALI.


eyaahee huuno wadani waa Inan, hamoodin Innan soo maad garan. (sis/bro what is wrong with ooraahdayda amaba fikradaheyga.?)in abti if you don't like my "mawduuc" then you don't need to view it or for that matter read it.
let other's enjoy my topics.ok


sidaa iyo is akhris dambe.

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ali

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To Wadani.
waakusalamay,kabacdi marka kobaad waxan fahmiwayay
Inan iyo Innan kadtahay.(?)wiil misa gabar midkood baatahay?

adigoon xuman u qaadan suasheyda.
saaxiib wiil daliyar,ah baanahee markad eeyaahee ilahayd ma isku school baynu aheen?.

mid xadaan kagajawabo!
Horaay somalidu umahmahday oy tiri
Naag laguma,tashado lagamana,tashado markaas
Raga waa <lagutashankaraa>.

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deeq.ali

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Cali baa ku soo labtay oo ku daraya
mahmahdi u masigkii hore kuso qoray e aahayd naag laguma,tashado lagamana,tashado laakiin nin waa
lagu,tashada waana laga,tashda.
inkastaboo anigeygani annan aminsanayn ee waxaan
jeclalaha inaad ufirsatid micnaha kujira mahmahdaas somaliyed.


maalin baan xasuusta inaan gabadh somaliyed oo
an iskuficneen baan kuyiri ka warraan xadii ey qacantaada ey
ku jirto inaad wiil noqotid.xadad i rumaysaneysid
wexey igu jawaabtay maxadii maxadii an noqonkaro
wakhtiyada qarkood waan YEELILAHAA
marka wadaniyey aba wadaniyow sidebey kulatahy?
Adigoo Raaliah fahfahin wacan o wanagsan ma igasinkartaa.

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anisa

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I'm girl and I won't mind asking man out and paying my share of the money and grapping ass
but man will get offended if you do that. IS like your are taking away there men thing so girls show some signs to get man dont' go out asking him out.

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saud

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>Ku,socota dhaman Ragaa Somaliyed
khasahan hebaalkaa Deeq.
anigu ku mahmahimaye dhamaan gabdhaha somaliyed
baa ku mahmahaya .
Naag waxaa ugu wacanoo uguna waanagsaan Naagta
Waanadadiyo wax kuqaadata hadalke.
gabdhahana waxbaa kamataqanid baan u maleenaaya
sababtoah waad u mahmahilahay.(muistatkŲ silloin kun olimme laivalla maxamed madobe).

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reality-check

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Hello all...Happy New Year

It is reality-check time...we can dream and wish but here comes the truth.
Men r supposed to ask the girl out, pay the bill, be cool, beg for the sister....why u might ask? simple....cuz culture said so.
Old ppl say that the man is responsible not the lady....a man is the one with $$$$ therefor he has to share it, a man is the one that is smart therefore enlighten her....so bros u have to keep on doing what u do not do best....settle down.
lol
lol
sisters....all u have to do...is sit ur butts down, make urself pretty, act dumb, and smile whenever he sees u...but we sisters know that is the trap in which we put our men through.
Once a man sees how "innocent" and "naive" a sister is...he lets her control him...and that is the truth.
truth is reality and reality has been said therefore reality-check done
peace
:)

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mohamed ibrahim

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to wadani,

the answer is simple,

EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN THERE IS A WOMAN BEHIND HIM!!

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Anonymous

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Husbands and wives complement and balance each other off. If a husband (or a wife for that matter)is not a strong person with clear objectives in mind, no one will make him or her successful. The only exception to the rule is when the smart spouse leads and the other one follows. But brothers how many of you know of a husband who listens to his wife?

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Anonymous

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Mohamed Ibrahim Stop sucking up.In every posting in this forums you're always sucking up to women. It makes me throw up. Take it from a WOMAN that's is such a turn off!

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Whoopi

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Anonymous, grl the truth hurts aight. I, for one, agree witchu Mohamed Ibrahim. For every successful man there's a woman behind him. First his mother then his wife! Simple enuff anonymous???? Newayz, its never fun playing the same game twice cuz by that time, ur PREDICTABLE, never a good thing in a relationship. And guys, I feel ur pain, honestly lol, if I was in ur boat who knowz, I'd probably be single the rest of ma life. Not a pretty pic, so grls ease up on them alrite. But guys...hmm, ima let u in on a little secret but don't tell anyone oK. Grls are afraid of rejection just as much as U. Hope that takes a load off yo shoulders. Peace!

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Anonymous

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Whoopi

I would agree with Mohamed if he said behind every successful man there are two women, one being his mother and the other one his wife, as you say. What if u were to marry a spouse who had, for the sake of argument, a weak mother. Then how does a successful wife deak with an already corrupted son?

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Anonymous

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Whoopi

I would agree with Mohamed if he had said behind every successful man there are two women, one being his mother and the other one his wife, as you say. What if u were to marry a spouse who had, for the sake of argument, a weak mother? Then how does a successful wife deal with an already corrupted son?


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reality-check

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Salaan to all!!
To Anonymous,
I think u do not know how to say sorry....I think what Mohamed said was very true..BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN THERE IS A STRONG WOMAN.
Walaal....it does not have to say mom, sister, wife etc cuz a woman is a woman......
If i followed ur idea then i would be messed up...for instance, what do we do with kids that do not have mothers??? and their aunts, sisters, or stranger raised them....r they unsuccessful??? I do not think so...so Mohamed walaal u r right and thanks for reminding us that and Anonymous walaal plz apologize to the brother for he has praised sisters :)so sisters we have to make sure that we do comply to those needs when asked.
But i shall add to this...about couples..i think that both shall be strong for they become one...
:)

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Yasmine

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I'm really shocked! What is this dating and boyfriend/girlfriend crap? Have you lost your identities as Muslims and as Somalis when you all came to the US Canada Europe or wherever? Our country may be inaccessible to us at the moment, but the least we can do is uphold our culture and our traditions. Take advantage of the
opportunities that are available to you in these foreign lands, pursue your educations, support your families, but NEVER forget who you are. Somalis have thus far made a name of shame for themselves, that we're lazy, directionless, ignorant, and always looking for handouts. Let's end this stereotype and reclaim our pride as a people. One day we will go back home -- let's hope that when that day comes we've all made something of ourselves and have something to contribute to our precious land. Insha Allah Tacaalah.
Isku xishooda!

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caaliya

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ilaahey amarkiis dad baa iska jecel iney dad caayaan ka dibna meesha foodo ka bilaabado bal anony maxey mohamed ibrahim ka maagtey, wuxuu yiri waa wax sax ah, ma cid baa taas ka soo horjeedo muslin iyo gaalo>...........

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wadani

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To All:

The purpose of this posting was to get a feedback, from those of you who claim to have been in such a perdicament.however this has turned out to be,somewhat different than we had anticipated. had I known this posting was going to be this way I wouldn't.perhaps I under-estimated the desire the need to a heated discussion. My fellow somalimen/women it is Imperative that we refrain this type of personal attacks.let others voice their openion,althuugh it might not neccessarily meet your standard discussion nevertheless that induvidual is exercising his/her freedom of speech as the west calls it.


this is wadani oo idinleh keep up the good work sis/bro's


sidaa iyo is akhris dambe.

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mohamed ibrahim

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the only reason men wants to be successful in life is because of women.........this is the final destination.....for all men!!!!!!!

to anony,
no comment. u dont deserve one!

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Anonymous

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Mohamed because you know I am right.

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INDEPENDENT

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To wadni

I just would like to say that you are SEXIST big time, because all you do all day is dis weman.

Well i have news for you, i am 20 years old indepentent woman. I am studying IT and there are no men behined me.

Have you all for gotten who carried you for DAMN 9 MONTHs IT WAS A WOMAN your mother.

S0 next time you start dissing weman think of your Mother.

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keynadiid

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hi mrs Independent!!

can I've your email? I'm also IT engineer.

here is mine:
dahir_k_1999@yahoo.co.uk


keep me in touch.

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INDEPENDENT

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Keynadiid how are u?

You want my email, convince me to give you my email. Tell me about your self and i will get back to you.

Take care.

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Keynadiid

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to INDEPEDENT!

well sister I found interesting to speak to U about studies coz U're studying same degree as I did. it's first time that I hear somali girl "I assume you're somali" who's studying IT perhaps now lot of our girls are studying IT but my time there was none. by the way I've finished my degree and started to work, further more about me I prefer to send you by email rather than here unless I've to.

take care!

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Indepentant

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Keynadiid

Yes i am a somali GIRL studying Information technology ( unbelieve able i know).

But if you want my email, you have to give me your. Then i will send you a letter O.K

Get in touch.

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mohamed ibrahim

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wow, some girls are so over confidence. i cant believe some ladies thing because she is in university all somali men will fall for her!......independent, remember oneway of judging ones education is his/her simplicity or gregrarious with others.

to anoym,

how can you be right when you cannot read between lines or see the hidden premises of my statement!

hey, how many times "aa mataktayna" since you started reading my statements?......1000x!

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Wadani

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To Independent:


I am sadened by your Wronful accusations, when you make such a serious allegations you must provide, where, when and how,(qulhaatuu burhaanakum) where is your proof. or you just like accusing people of
something out of nothing. my sister let me ask you a question, is expressing my feelings towards females a sexism.has this became a crime.my god people please read and understand what the actual context of the text is, then accuse or allege someOne of wrong doing. somalidu waxay tirahaa "intaadan falin ka fiirso. by the way I am happy for you it is indeed encouraging to hear sisters in a higher education. keep up the good work and pay attention to what I am really trully saying.

sidaa iyo is akhris dambe oo wacan.

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Keynadiid

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to mohamed ibrahim

hi brother U said
"i cant believe some ladies thing because she is in
university all somali men will fall for her!"
why not most of them are civilised, flexible and humble comparing others this shares every society. if U know the value of education then you'll have to respect those who have or willing to have.


to Indepentant

keep in touch sis.:
dahir_k_1999@yahoo.co.uk

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INDEPENTENT

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Mohammed

I cant beleive you, you ARE arrogant, just because i am educated doesn't mean i want men to fall for me i am just being honest. i truly think you are pissed off about my attributes but face it lad they are very much true.

I am educated for ME no one else, i certainly did not go to college all those years so that a somali man would fall for me. Brothers get real. Now let me ask you all a qeustion Brother's
Do you seriously think that women get educated for somali men??. There are more inteligent, well Educated men out there.

Wadani

And another thing Wadani what is your topic about explain to me, cos i certainly got the wrong conclution.

Keynadiid

Thanks bro for sticking up for me, i appreciate it

Take care bro's

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INDEPENDENT

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Keynadiid

I am sorry that i havent emailed you, i am having problems with your email ADDRESS.

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Anonymous

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ala maxaa been lisku cabaa meeshaan!! war wiilasha somaliyeed maa saan laga daayo mid walba markey tiraah aqaan aan leeyahay ayey ayagan dabo orod galaan........waryaada waxyaabo badan oo run aheyn ayaa meeshaan laga sheegaa, war ha lis jiro aqayaarey, yaan na lagu cabin!

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mohamed ibrahim

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kenadid since when did education become very important to you? lol!......."education important", maybe according to you, its something new brother, but some people are born within educated enviroment and they never talk about it! this topic is not about knowing who is in university and who is not......u better check first the topic, and i cant believe some people will be asked something and they just keep on talking about themselfes specially those in first or junior year of university level. come on, be realistic, no body really cares about how educated you are, you must keep to yourself, look for example indepent she has been asked one question she is answering another one, well you just remind me clinton and the sex scandle, when he asked about his relationship with monica he keep on saying, "well, i have created 20 million jobs, i have done this, that" and so on......just write your topics within the frame work of the discussion!! for gods sake, hey all fresh student its good that your persuading education but at your stage i use to be quiet cause i never knew will the end come or not, so chill!!

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ahlam

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reality check
I work in a construction business and am a somali young lady who is 24 years old and most men are intimidated when i ask them out or when i do the manly thing as what some of my fellow sister said when we try to pay the bill or certainly ask a guy out the always run or you never see them again. As one of my mentor told this one day he said that "let a man do a mans job or you take his pride away". So you see this is the problem some of them men like women to ask them or pay there half and some men are just intimidated because theu want to do the nice thing like opening the door. My self am the kind of girl who acts like a man i do my own builings. feed back please

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INDEPENTENT

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Mohamed

You are saying that i was not taking about the topic, well BRO i was trying to get my point of view cross to poeple like you.

What i was saying was relevent to the topic, there you all are dissing women/girls. I felt that i should defend my self.

What question was i asked please do remind me.It was you who said that somali women get educated for somali men. GET REAL.

Chill out Bro

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keynadiid

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to mohamed Ibrahim

I don't get your point, all what I said was answer to comments you made about educated woman. I see nothing interesting about your topic at all I'm out here if it helps.......
you better know person before you guess..who is he/she
!!.

to independent

sister checkout:
first part is like this
dahir_k_1999 then yahoo.co.uk

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INDEPENTENT

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Keynadiid

Sorry bro but my computer wont let me email you, don't you have hotmail.

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Caabi

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war dadoow haka tagina xishoodkii iyo xayada walaalkeen wadani wuxuu post gareeyay mawduuc mawduucaana qof ilaa iyo hada wax ka yara taabtay waxaa ka jira inanta la yiraaho "caraweelo" maxay tahay meesha dhan fowda ayaad ka dhigteen. is taxyi bro/sis dee aqoontiinuna idinka un bay idin anficye naga yara daaya faanka sub-haana allah waaxay dadku gaw. mise caruurtii flight thirteen ayaanu la shaxaynaa, dee haday arintu sidaa tahay anigu ka baxay.


maca salaama sidaa iyo is akhris dambe.

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mohamed i

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caafi that is what i was trying to tell them the whole day! they never understood!!

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razak

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ahlam it is not a bad thing , first of all i like to congragulate you that you are the first somali construction worker i ever heard of not even man aight , i am impresssed by you although in a good way. i think not all man have the same taste right, some of us like to be challenge and some of us like it easy, . me i am the type of guy that like the challenge. It is not even fun if a women ask yo to go out with her , lets just stick with the traditional way wher the guy has to ask the girl out , meaning to initiate then make it a 50/50 thaing you know. although for those punk guys thinking that ladys would ask you out stop dreaming aight, even if you are tyson becford , whatever his name is, somali girls wont ask you out. we got to give our ladys "values" thy are precious , (ladys i aint trying to suck up aight just telling the truth) we can treat them like western women. for instance i have incountered ladys xome in up to me asking me out but what do i think of them " well not worth while , just temporary" so i say this to youall women and your countrya re the most important thing in mans world and pride so to acquire thos a man has to shed some blood in tother word must "sacrifice " whatever.
p.s if you all wanna say something you can email me at this razak17@hotmail.com

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Bille Samatar

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Dear Mohamed Ibrahim please go to a grammar class girls are not over confidence but over confident.Your grammar sucks and you want us to believe that you are educated.And quit the game of being a sucker to women,it is outdated.

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INDEPENDENT

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Mohamed

What joy do you get from insulting women? i just don't understand. I mean you certainly did not have a guy carry you far 9 MONTH. It was YOUR MOTHER. and she is also a women, you diss all women your dissing your mother.!!!!!!!!!!!

GROW UP

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Jawaahir

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Waar Waa inamadiinan Waar u yara Kaadiya Inanku waa fariidee.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Waar yaadhahee Maxaad Inanka ka doonaysan Dee Maxamed Wax ceeb ah Ka muu Sheegin hablaha, all he did is talk about the facts Halkana ma aha dee dictatoriyadii Soomaaliya sow ma garan.Dee hadii hablihii soomaaliyeed ay noqdeen arrogant, selfish, condicsending,cruel to somali men.Calling the police on thier men, but not the jamaykaankan uraya e ay candhadooda u dhiganayaan, akhas Uf.
Maxamed walaalo Weynow waligaa caqligaan ku gu riyaaqayaa. that is what I call true and genuine Patriot.Guuleeyso waligaa.

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mohamed ibrahim

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Bile samatar, I never mentioned whether I am educated or not. Besides one to be educated it's not necessary to be in English speaking country. I am not here to check my grammar but just write down what I think. On the other hand, proficiency of English doesn't make one to be updated. It might be your second language English, but its my 4th believe it or not. However, take a minute to glance the theme of the topic and you will realize that some of those who tired to get there point across are just being influenced by there own personal opinions; remember there job is to test the argument for its logical soundness, not to testify or bear witness to argument's ultimate truth. I really don't know whether you too understand but you must have a sense of what necessarily follows from a given statement as distinguished from what statement merely suggests without proof. This last sentence tells you how represent your argument wisely and use sound judgement.

To independent,

Don't misunderstand me, it was me who wrote from the first place "BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN THERE IS WOMAN". This should tell I don't degrade women as whole but believe all of us to stay within framework of the topic not giving details who you are and what you do etc., don't you worry without you telling us that you study, we'll all the time read what you write if it makes sense or not. Remember, ones professional and its statue as a whole are usually presented whenever he/she is talking to audience not here. Just write we will give attention don't worry.

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Aqyaar.

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mohammed ibrahim.

Don't worry, you don't have to explain anything to anybody. Women go to schools for different purposes as men do for their own different purposes. It is an individual perception and how he/she wants to acheive goals in life. You were right when you said" behind every successful man there is a woman". I have seen many "cali uraayayaal" become alive and well respected in the community after they got married.

Wadani.

This goes out for you man. I would like the situation kept the way it is. You know that men don't like women who are bold even if we know they are saafi. It sorta creates mistrust. I like when a woman acts untouchable and regid to the core so I can prove to my self that if I need that sister, I need to work hard. I would say don't mislead the babies into grapping asses or things like that. Because if she grapps mine, she is gonna grap anybody else's. Sooooooorry guys if i MADE IT LONG.

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To Mohamed,

You don't have to explain yourself to any one, what you said is 100% right.
By the way, I liked the way you represent your facts,and I do really enjoy reading you articles.

To independent sis,
I read what Mohamed wrote and I don't see any where he degrading women. The oppsite is true, or you don't want to hear the facts sis.

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razak

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hey guys easy on the ladys aight , guys everyone has their own taste and ways of approaching women , so just because you like one thing it doesnt mean that the other persons opinion is wrong. and that is why it is called opinion, meaning what you think is write to yourself but it doesnt necessarily has to be bought by others.

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Anonymous

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Hi everyone,

Somalian men are so unbeliveable, they want their ladies to pay for their fucking food for them, they want to them to make their first move and in case marrige come into the picture they want them to wash, iron, look after the kids(if they are man that is), fucking, cook and on and on! so what is left for him to do wank youself

somali men get a grip and go to hell

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Jawaahir

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first part to Anonymous:

waxan filayaa in midani laga soo caraysiiyay,inabti waaxay dee sowdigan na fucking gareynaya maaha. malaha iminkaa lagu soo furay. inaar tartiib oo hana aflagaadeyn somalimen are your brothers and fathers and grandfathers.
anigu waxaan qabaa in ay runtahay waxa ay jameykanku ku sheegeen hablaha soomaaliyeed "ee ah cheap and clean" kol markay arkaan inan soomaali ah ayun bay waxan la aqoon iyo argument la yimaadaan. matahay ajnabi iga wale inaynan xitaa madaxa kor u qaadayn, dee taasuna waa nasiib xumo. kow dheh. marka walaalayal isku yara xishoodoo dee nimanka soomaaliyeed waa nimankiinee u yara kaadiya oo dhibka ka dhaafa. inamada soomaaliyeed nah walaalayaal dee hablaha soomaaliyeed. all they are saying is ayaan filayaa is waar
"qalabka ayaan u sidanaa quruxda ayaan u leenahay" only for somalimen sow ma garan dee shidada inaga daayoo wax iskula hara.


bye:

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razak

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to jawaahir hey brother man you are absolutly right man , you got to get our backs and the women has to respect the man as well as the men respects the women right. and about the jamaican guys disrespecting our women is not the somali men fault, it is because the females that •••• with jamaican guys have no self-respect for themselves and that is not a lie. all am saying is that i dont live in cannada or where somaligirls get disrespected or lose their self-respect, but if you are one of those brothers or fathers of those girls that get disrespected please do something about it.
from razak
if you have any comments feel free to email me
and i will let you know more on what i think aabout it,
razak17@hotmail.com

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aamina

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suad haye af finish aad ku hadlee ma ahoo waan kula fahmay maxaa doonta aad ka sameeneesay adiga iyo maxamed

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One of yours

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Any1 having similar concern as "wadani",
I think "ma soeur carawello" have said and gave you enough answers and clues about it.
I thing it is proir to the men's duty to get his
prey. This is natural. However this does mean that
woman can't/never/ pursue men. Thing about it, if you're interested to woman , this is because she already played her part, she somhow seduce you.
Bear in mind that not evry woman that smiles to you is not up to something. So don't fall in the trap. If you clevel enough , u can tell. With woman u have to be carefull and play as them.
Let me tell that it took me a year and half to get
the lady that I love now. She gave me hard time, playing games, trying to make me jealous, seducing me at the same time. However, now she is the obssessed one. She won't see me for a day and she'll go nut. Now this is a typical woman.She never shown a sign of love or weakness for a year and half. Now if I was someone else I would probably give up and loose her. To me the only way that I would have done this is , if she had another relationship, but she was'nt. So I hang on and this was the price. Boy she is georgeous and we drive each other maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaade.

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Wadani

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Waryaahee Waaxay waxan kudaafadka ah ee nooga sheekeyn his mistress. waar idhageyso dibjir yahow anigu ku maanan weydiin how you drive each other nut. this has nothing to do whith what we are discussing sow ma garan. ee meshan nac nacda kala tag. people please read before you pass judgement. my god why are somalis so quick to judge.anyways that is me wadani oo idinleh sidaa iyo is akhris dambe

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Cashew

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Hebel, your contribution is needed here.


by
Cashew, formerly known as hebla (too many chicks in your fan club are claiming the name)

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hebel

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Cashew is fine with me I like it dear sis fomerly known as hebla.
But what does it mean?
And how can I make those red dots up there in the main topic?

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DaBACHELOR

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WHATZ UP GIRLZ
I can make your life a world of difference
Throw me in the mix of your sexual experiences
See what happens
by
GINUWINE Da BACHELOR
DO U WANNA RIDE MY PONY?????
HAHAHAHA

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Halimo

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DaBACHELOR wat the hell u talking about
u pervert
u should be shot
Somali men are scrubs and u r a living example
Ride u r our pony
get it

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Da Bachelor

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YO HALIIMO WHERE'S FARRAH
HAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

GIRL DONT TAKE LIFE SO SERIOUS
CHILL
ARE U REALLY A HALIIMO (LOL)
IS YA FRIENDS NAME AMBARRO
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

DA BACHELORS CHILLIN
HALIMO'S CHILLIN
WHAT MORE CAN I SAY
TOP BILLIN

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Suuban

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I wonder
What Happen to wisdom, People specially those of you flight thirteens pls do not under any circumstance try to change the current issue. this topic is the most interesting topic perhaps the most responded topic on this Web site. so pls if you have nothing good to say then you need not to
bring finger pointing. because it is apparent that you have nothing to contribute interms of what is been discussed.
that is me with my two cents

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hebel

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suban am I one of them....or am I the good ones?

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Observer

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Hebel, Suuban and suban are not the same. One is trash

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Observer

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Hebel, Suuban and Suban are not the same. One is trash

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DaBACHELORS DAD

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DaBACHELOR
Wats up with u loser
U probably never been with a yattie
loser wanker get life
Farax waxid
Jungle fever huh
U r fucking fresh of boat huh
DaBACHELR loser

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HEBEL

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YEAH? AND WHO ARE YOU?

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XaawoTaako

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To Wadani,
Of all the things a person can talk of, why this issue. Did you ever hear of the story about a father, the son, and the donkey. This issue is similar. Check this out>

If a girl makes the first move on the guy, society calls her a "Tramp" and a "Slut" and if the girl waits for the guy to make the moves, she's a pain in the Ass as you put it! So, what should women do?

And another thing, I don't think you should Generalize women like that, it depends on the individual Female, and not the whole Female gender, on who makes the first Move. Some women make the first move, and some don't. So, you can't just say they all do or they all don't.
This whole concept is a very Logical & Common-sense kinda concept, it doesn't take a Rocket-Physicist to figure it out!

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Wadani

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TO: Xaawataaka

War ileyn Waaa cajiib oo cajaba oo cajaa'ib nayaahee xaawa taaka show maadan dhimanba waaxay sowdigii daljirka daahsoon daris la ahaa goormaad internetkana baratay.gaw huuno xaawa ilatay so magaran dee iska dhaafoo magac kale isticmaal.by the way does this mean you aren't one of them don't wanna grab men ass. ilike it we should hear from eacg other then.lol.


sidaa iyo is akhris dambe oo wacan

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Wadani

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TO: Xaawataaka

War ileyn Waaa cajiib oo cajaba oo cajaa'ib nayaahee xaawa taaka show maadan dhimanba waaxay sowdigii daljirka daahsoon daris la ahaa goormaad internetkana baratay.gaw huuno xaawa ilatay so magaran dee iska dhaafoo magac kale isticmaal.by the way does this mean you aren't one of them don't wanna grab men ass. ilike it we should hear from eacg other then.lol.


sidaa iyo is akhris dambe oo wacan

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hebel

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koo mooryaankoo aa falaarta ka siibtay.
weena xoogeen maskiinta.

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TROUBLEGIRL

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TO WADANI:-

U as a guy should have figured it out man. Unless a man is broke and can't afford a Happy meal... he should pay for everything. And if you are broke and can't take your girl to McD's please stop trying to hit on gals coz your Oxfam ass ain't worth it.Not that we are all materialistic....but since you raised the issue I am sharing my wisdom with ya.

MEN feel so happy to chase girls coz they see us as a challenge....the more the girl is Kibirley the more the guy wants to get in her Knickers..That is a known fact.I agree with CARAWELO......Men think they are winning but us girls enjoy the chase and attention just as much....we want men to BEG....B4 they enter our DOMAIN.If you are a player you will run away with impatience.....if your chase is Legit and you really want the girl.....Then you got nothing to lose...Win her with your MAN-NESS......If you got the BALLS..... go to Oxfam 2-for-the price of 1.

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hebel

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Wisdom.....A one over-used word

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Wadani

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Alla xujooy waa troublegirl Geel xeradii diiday waa xujo, Gabar xileheed diiday waa xujo. Faras Xakamaha Diiday waaxujo, Bal hadaba saan wax yeelnaa troublegirl iyo wiixi soo raacaba.
Troublegirl u malayn maayo in aad faham santahay the contex of the text, in other word's garan meysid amaba ma fahamsanid tuducda Sheekada.
ee marka hore soo akhri hordhaca sheekada amaba mawduuca. by the way I for one don't beleive in chasing women specially somali women, those of you who are of interest in us somali Men will come along those who of you who don't have interest in us, well will move on. as I mentioned above we are not going to complain we're not even crying, bragging or whining for that matter we are merely trying to get a point across.

sidaa iyo is akhris dambe

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khalil

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To Ahlam:

Well, my best bet is you 've been fishing wrong side of the sea. For of those years , you have been messing up with Chicken men. You hardly met the real men--those who lets you pay the whole bill of the first night and screw you up in your car(if you have any)at the same night. I am not talking about Gigloo. I am talkinga bout real men that force you to wet pant or let your juicy drain when you look them into eyes. Girl i feel sorry for you ;-)

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T-GIRL

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WADANI

Whatever man.....If ya think U can get a SOMALI woman without chasing and aproaching her first... U must be dreaming. And furthermore brother SOMALIAN women have something called class,dignity and self-respect<Which differentiates us from the NON muslim women>. So don't even go there bro......Coz looks like U spent way too much time in QURBO-LAND

PEACE
TROUBLE

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woohaa

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t-girl dont u have aa livee
school to go to
work
ur always in every ffreaking page defending the womenns right and holding the flag of femanism up high.
is that your goal in life i guess it is
somaliwomen this and that.there r my sisters and above all dear muma.so please get rid of this dick hating mentality and deal with it (baby)
i dont mean any harm sister just leting u know that ur a bug aboo.
boooooooooooom booooooooooom
got to go trouble peace

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SUMAYA

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HEHEHEHEH......

ZUP WADANI BABY HOW ARE YAH HOW IS EVERYTHIGN GOING FOR YAH ARE YOU STILL SEARCHING YOUR SOULMATE OR WHAT. BROTHER I FEEL FOR YAH IT IS JUST THAT I CAN'T HELP YOU AT THIS TIME OF THE SEASON...LOL.. BUT DO YOUR THING TRUST ME THEY WILL COME ALONG ONE WAY OR THE OTHER AND MAKE SURE TO START PRAYING, 'CAUSE I BELIEVE THAT IS SOMETHING MISSING IN YOUR LIFE "GOD ALMIGHTY"
UNTIL THEN TAKE CARE YOURSELF.. AND KEEP HOPE ALIVE ...LOL LIKE JESSIE JACKSON ..LOL..


HUGZ

YOUR OLD LADY SUMAYA.

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Alex

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&#65279;Sumaya if you canít help him now, would you give him a rain check then, so he can come back
when you became available or re stocked?

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ALI VAN GOGH

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I HAVE A FEW WORDS FOR YA WADANI

WHERE ON EARTH ARE YOU?
COME OUT OF YOUR COCOON AND WONDER.
BE POSITIVE AND CUT DOWN THOSE HUNG-UPS.

PEACE

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Sumaya

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Salaama Caleykum

Dear: Sister Sumaya

I have been using this Nick longtime pls don't used again may Allaah bless you

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Alex

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Dear Sumaya, Sumaya has been using this name for a long time please refrain from using this name. This name has been patented and trade marked by the original Sumaya and it's on file at the United States Patent Office and other countries around the world including all the upcoming Somali country names.

Thank you.


To the original Sumaya. Should we precede prepare a lawsuit just in case ?

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