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LOVE AND THE INTERNET

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DR_RUN_SHEEG

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MANY OF YOU, SISTERS AND BROTHERS, HAVE TALKED ABOUT THE EXISTANCE OF LOVE AND ITS EFFECT ON MANKIND. MANY PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN ONLY LOVE A PERSON IF YOU KNOW THAT PERSON, WHILE OTHERS BELIEVE IN WHAT IS KNOWN AS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. WHAT I AM INTERESTED TO FIND IS WHETHER LOVE CAN DEVELOP FROM A CONVERSATION ON THE WORLDWIDE WEB, I.E. CAN YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE YOU HAVE KNOWN JUST ON THE INTERNET?. SOMEBODY YOU HAVE NOT SEEN OR HEARD.
WHAT IS YOUR TAKE ON THIS ONE LADIES AND GENTLEMEN.
TILL LATER
ON MY BIKE

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Net

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Yes, you can because I know people who have met on the Net and are planning to marry.

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Anonymous

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haa,, way dhacdaa in aad qof aadan arkin jeclaato aniga iyo qofkaygaa bay inagu dhacday hadanaa xiriikeenaa is strong soon guur baynu rajayn.

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Ciir

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Salaamu Calaykum
To: Dr _Run_Sheeg

Waa lagu salaamay, Aboow haa waa jirtaa dad oo internetka iska jeclaaday marka labada qof weligood confersation over the internet lee ma iskula hadlaayaana day. Waxa waaye haday iska helaan xiriikooda waa sii dheeraanaa aboow. haye maca salaama ikhiyaarta.

Amaano allah iyo amaano rasuul

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Suad

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to DR_RUN_SHEEG

I belive your my warden...and i just want to tell you i've broken out of jail!

suad

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Deeqa

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Salaam, everyone

I would think that any love that developes over a conversation is an INTELLECTUAL love. ie, you agree or admire the person's intellect, ideas, and comments. But romantic love would only develop if the couple intended it to (they exchange names, personal likes and dislikes, marital status, appearance etc.). I have never met anyone who professes to love another (romantically) without having met them or seen their picture.

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Suban

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Dr_Ruun-Sheeg,
Su'aashi page kale ku qorneyd oo aheed "Raaga maxaa dhuulkii oo ga raadsadaan qof ee guursadaan..." Waxaa adiga ku jawaabtaey waxaa ugu wacan 50/50. Marka su'aash internetka iyo love waa iska 50/50 nooo!!

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KAMEEL

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I believe you can only connect with a person
on a intellectual level over the net.

In order to have that emotional tie. I think
you have to meet face to Face.

Careful ppl, its a dangerous world out there.:-)

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Miss_ Love_99

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TO KAMEEL

I THINK YOU RIGHT ,ALOT OF PEOPLE OUT THERE THEY NOT THE PEOPLE YOU USED TO KNOW AND I'M NOT SAYING SOMALIAN ARE, BUT THERE IS KILLERS,etc.

BE CARE FULL FOR YOUR LIFE ONLY IF YOU WANNA LIVE.

peace out!

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FAYNUUS

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TO RUN_SHEEG

AAN RUNTA KUU SHEEGEE LABDAAN BARI WAA LAY SOO GAL GALAY WAA JACEEL INTERNETKA KA SOO BODAY LAAKIIN WAA KA BAQAAYAA OO WAXAAN U MALAYNAYAA IN UUSAN SII SOCONEEN
SABABTA WAXAY TAHAY KUWII NA AGJOOGAY AYAAN QABAN LA'NAHAY WAABA KOO NUMBERKISA YAHAY INTERNET!!!!!!
ALLAHA SAHLO.

NABADGALYO

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Zack-Abaar

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LOVE ON THE NET!!!!!! HUUUH HUUUh WAA YAAB!!!!!

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DR_RUN_SHEEG

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TO SUBAN:
WHAT DO MEAN 50/50 ? CAN YOU BE MORE EXPLANATORY PLEASE.
TO: FAYNUUS.
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST. GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR NET LOVE.

TILL LATER ALL
ON MY BIKE

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Suban

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Dr_Ruun_Sheeg, waa maxay 50/50 warkaas adiigaan ka maqlay? I don't even know what it is; you used the term in regards to "why somali men go back home to get married"

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DR_RUN_SHEEG

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TO SUBAN.

I PICKED THE TERM 50/50 FROM ONE OF THE TOPICS IN THIS FORUM, ASKING, IS THE SOMALI MARRIAGE 50/50.
THE REASON I GAVE THIS ANSWER WAS THAT THE SOMALI LADIES ASKING US TO SHARE HOUSEHOLD RESPONSIBILITIES CAUSED US TO GO BACK TO AFRICA FOR FISHING. IF YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN SUBAN.
NOW COMING BACK TO THIS TOPIC, WHAT IS IDEA?

NB. SUBAN IF IN FUTURE YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND ME, I CAN ONLY SAY "ON YA BIKE".
TILL LATER
ON MY BIKE

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Samale

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sallaan kadib

Internet-ku waa aalad isgaarsiineed, waxaana dhici karta in Ra'yi, ama Oraah qof ay saamayn kugu yeelato, dabadeedna Qofkii aad dareen u qaado. Laakiin aad buu u yaryahay Itmaalka aad qofkaas isu heshaan juqraafiyadda iyo kalsooni daro awgeed.

Waxaase dhab ah sida ay suuro gal u tahay arrintan.
till next time by..

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SUBAN

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DR_RUUN_SHEEG,
I AGREE WITH THE COMMENTS BY DEEQA AND SAMALE. HOW COME YOU DIDN'T TELL US WHAT YOU THINK??
TILL NEXT TIME, ON MY LIMO!!!!

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DR_RUN_SHEEG

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suban
i am trying to find out whether love on the net exists, but i havent come across anybody who has fallen in love as a result of the internet. would like to see one.

if it does exist as some suggest, has it happened in the somali community?.

what is intellectual love by the way deeqa? sorry for asking the question a bit late.

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Falis

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Run-sheeg anaa runta kushaygayo, love in the net way dhacday oo waxaan arkay ilaa iyo 5 qof oo aan garanayo in ay isku kulmeen internetka dabadeedna serious noqdayn qarkood wayba isguursadeyn hada kuwakalana qaban qaabo ayee ku jiraan. So my point is these days love in the net wuxuu u socdaa sidii biyo oo kale but god know haduu uu yahay mid warayo? (we can only wish them all the best luck those who fall in love in the net).
Waa iga intaa.

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Deeqa

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Salaam all,

Dr-run-sheeg, I think someone has already defined intellectual love. But this is my take: It's when you enjoy and are stimulated intellectually by discussions with someone; you don't agree with everything the person says, but you think their ideas and opinions are valid and worthwhile. In short, you find the person's MIND fascinating.

Corrections/additions welcome.

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Anonymous

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DEEQA,


WELL PUT SIS, COULDN'T SAY BETTER MYSELF.

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Mr Nice.

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To Dr: Run-Sheeg:

Haduu hada inaga ihayo jacalkaas naftiisa bal kawaran taas?

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DR_RUN_SHEEG

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deeqa, thanks for the clarity.

falis, dadkan aad sheegtay iney internetka iska jecladeen, somali maku jirtaa?

mr.nice, wish you the best, but you explain how it began and the stage you are now.

till later
on my bike.

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Dr Who

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Salamu Alaikum


First of all, before I go into the this topic, I would like to have some definition of the Word "Love".

Accoding to my definition Love is a disease even drugs can not ease the symptoms are dire they include desire.

So, going along with that definition I think you can not love someone you don't know in real live, in other words you can not fell in love somebody that you have met in Virtual reality.

But, you may like what you read from the screen, and that is quite different from the Word love whcih is very !Huge!.

That is all what I have to say.

Salamu Alaikum

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Anon69

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Deeqa:

Alright, you win.

There is a long list of men on this forums (I - being one of them) who are mystified & amazed by your intelligence, class and thoughfulness. We don't care if you have three legs or three eyes, if this not the Interent Love then I don't know what is. I have been selected by my peers to officially make this confession on behave of the Silent majority men. But first provide the following question.

1. Where do you reside
2. How old are you
3. Are you in Europe , North America
4. Are you a student, Professional

Please be quick with the responses, as all the guys have their engine running to make the dash to your door step: - LOL

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Deeqa

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Anon69,

LOL. . . If you were really determined to get answers to your questions, you wouldn't have to ask me outright. . . Most of the answers are dispersed throughout this forums. . .

In celebration of female mystique and humour, I will give YOU the task of figuring out the answers to my questions.

Turn off those engines friend. Be environmentally conscious. LOL

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Anon69

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Deeqa:

LOL ...... Can you drop hinds where those answers are sprinkled???? Inquiring minds wanna know!!!!

AS you instructed I got rid of the car, replaced with "Safina al Saxra" Camel: it may take little longer but am willing to see thru. see how far I am willing to go to reach my goal!!!!!!

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Mr Nice.

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To Dr Run Sheeg:

I was just messing with you, I agreed with Dr Who I don't think I will have crash on someone that simply I met on the net.But incase if that happens that queen will be Deeqa....lol, Deeqa I don't have car to turn off all I have is bike,will you mind bike?........lol

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Deeqa

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Anon69:

Sorry, I am not going to make it any easier. If you were really sincere, you would be resourceful enough to find the answers. Do I detect a hint of reluctance here? That's just typical. You're revving your engines (no double entendre intended) to race to my front door, yet you can't be bothered to read my other postings. . . sigh, guys are just not the way they used to be. . .Just look at Prince Charming, racing across the country with a glass slipper as his only clue, yet HE had no trouble finding Cinderalla. LOL

Seriously, though. You DON'T want to get involved with someone over the internet. Trust me on this. It's just too much trouble.

And yes, a camel would be more environmentally friendly, although you may have trouble crossing the Atlantic Ocean: A camel may be the "Ship of the Desert" but I'll bet a real ocean may come as something of a surprise to you both. . .

Mr. Nice:

Very cute. A bike. Sheesh, what're you, a student? Buddy, you don't tell a girl you don't have car! Borrow one from your friends, your Dad, whathever. Just don't tell a girl a bike'll have to do. . . What am I saying? This is ridiculous. . .I am outta here, before I write something I'll regret later.

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DR_RUN_SHEEG

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WAR YAA ILA QOSLA,

PLEASEEEEEEEEE ANON69, MR NICE, DEEQA

NAGA JOOJIYA.

TO. WANNA RIDE MY BIKE AND WE WILL TEST L.O.N.
TILL LATER
ON MY BIKE.

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Anon69

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Deeqa:

Can't beleive your assumption that I don't read your postings!!!! Man I receite them like Gospel every night :-) but as they say "where there is a will there is a way" I will take great pleasure in getting to the bottom of this.

As for my Camel, I have been trying to diet the darn thing lately, It's been consuming too much, that it exhausted my little meager savings for the Dowry. I don't know how to face your parents at the same time I don't wanna give Mr. Nice & his Bike an inch....LOL

As for getting getting involved over the Internet, I agree with you. But my point was if it's used to break the Ice than it served a useful purposes especially if it bags a big fish like you , "I call it Icing on the Cake"

Let me get off before I slide on the Slippery slope ...LOL

p.s.

Mr. Nice,
I kept telling you not to mention that bike, Hmmm but I am glad on second though afterall you just made a bad move which understandably works to my advantage Need a ride on my Camel "XIIN FIININ"...LOL


Peace

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Suhayla

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To Dr_Run_Sheeg:
Please bear with me, I am only trying to state my opinion to your initial question. It is indeed an intriguing one, however, the word " falling in Love" is misplaced or miss used because in my opinion getting "engaged or infatuated" seems more appropriate. I agree with Deeqa's first response in terms of internet being the vehicle for the person to exhibit his/her intellectual capabilities and that may be the first seed in stablishing our admiration and appreciation for that person. May be the person can engage our senses at intellectual level.Samale also has a great point. But to love is to accept the faults of someone as well as their strenght. To let yourself be in position to show your weakest moment, to let someone that was virtually stranger in the past be the king/queen of your life ,and to let person be the keeper of your secrects. Those things are huge part of oneself and hardly easy to entrust on someone you converse on the internet. Moreover,it is extremely hard to relinquish the rein of our lives. In my opinion, the person who we elect to take the reins should be worthy of it. And that is certainly not possible on this great medium because it is not the arena for anyone to show what they are made. However, it might give us the glimpse of what the prospective candidate might capable of . Given all of that, developing feelings toward "internet pal" hinges on our personal philosophy and how we romantisize the notion of love. If you are a person who is inclined to believe everybody in the world has another half made for him/her then you will readily perceive the above mention glimpse to be your lucky star!!!
Salaan for all .

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Anon69

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Suhayla:

First your thesis here was very well put. However for one to expect to have any meaningful relationship over the Internet is to put it simply "Dhalanteed" and dangerous at that. But I also beleive that for two people to pursue a relationship, the starting point should be that they should have some things in common, whether temperment, taste, intellectual or humour. That can be easily attained to some degree thru these cyber spaces before full bloom romance is sough.

On the otherhand, because of our cultural constraint, if I may come to your house say with your brother, I may be too shy or tongue tied to pursue you aggressively or may not be appropriate (yes it could be done other ways), while here I can be myself without being nasty, vulgur in other words being "in my element". So long as we excercise respect and maturity it's another form of getting connected except that today we utilizing a modern medium.

I really liked you point " the other person is somebody you can put your guard down to, with fear" hmmmmm that's one for the books ... are you speaking from expierience ???? ...LOL just kidding.

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Mr Nice.

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To Deeqa:

Abaayadiis daacadnimadiina xumaato maa loobadalay? yes, I am student, by the way iskuma tuso gabdhaha waxaanan heli karin,tii aan rabin bike she will hit the road.....lol

To Anon69:

Macalinka camelka igu soo wareeji bikekii waxaa
igu haysta dr run sheeg.

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Suhayla

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To Anon69:
Salaan baan ka dib,
Thank you for your comment about my thesis.
Second, please let me discuss the following:
1) I agree with you to pursue a meaningful relationship the two people must have something in common whatever that may be.However, we were merely contemplating the possiblity of inception of "falling in love". I disagree with choice of the word. It a strong word to use. Please let's be careful of using euphemisms when we are discussing the matters of heart because the ramifications are grave.
2)As long as we excercise respect and maturity this medium will be a vehicle to stay connected. However, It is a medium well suited for public debate and dialogue. In personal matters you need to stablish trust and privacy which are what is missing here. The shroud that cyber space provides renders this medium to be unsuiting for love.
As to you last comment I honesty believe that IF you are not earnest and truthful to yourself and to your loved one, all of our efforts are destine to fail. Part of being honest is putting "your guard down" because soon or later the person will find out "the real You". So establishing honesty from the get go will save both of you heart ache and lot of grieve!!! To me "love" means embracing the "whole person". My protocol is to establish "what you see is what you". To come to terms with the fact that we all lack something or another and are only human so strive together to road of perfection. And that takes acceptance and lot of hard work as well as lots of disappointments. If you do survive the turbulances then you made!!
So dear Anon69 do you see my hesitance? this medium lacks personal touch. It is a fertile place to fantasy.I see it serving us as a place to carry on our discussions period!

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Anon69

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Suhayla:

This LOVE thing has been elusive, every culture or even between genders have different take on it's meaning. To the exterme some say, once your are infected, you walk around in a state of Zombie. Sleep no longer matters, food tastes like rubber, your eyes become glazed like a deer caught on head light, you start loosing count of who your realtives are .... need I go on LOL.

But as I said it's been elusive to me. I see my fellow westerns goggle eyeing each other when as they say, in love, but then you see statistcally their high divorce rate, while the arranged marriages (I don't condone it) lasts longer go figure!!!

I don't know if you read the book about Somalia written by Margaret Laurence called "The Prophet's Camel Bell" written in the early 50's. Here is an excerpt from her book regarding the meaning of LOVE among the Somalis at that period.

" Love between men & women did not here contain the dichotomy long ago imposed upon it in the western world by the church, that of separating it, as though it were oil and water, into elements labelled "spirirtual" and "physical". The Somalis recognized no such distinction. Furthermore, LOVE - like tribal war, was not only necessaity and a pleasure, but a skill and an art.

Let me conclude with this Old Somali Love poem!!!

Your body is to age and death bethrothed,
and some day all it richness they will share -

Turn not away in scorn.
Some day a grave will prove
the frailty of your face,
and worms its grace enjoy.
let me enjoy you now -
turn not away in scorn.

*************

Like a camel sick to the bone,
weakened and withering in strength,
I, from love of you
Oh Dudi, grow wasted and gaunt.


Wad salamantay ' Mama love' :-)

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FAYNUUS

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Salaan Dhamaaaaaaaaaan

jaceelka iyo internedka, aniga shagsi ahaan internetka waxaan u malaynayaa in layska jeclaan karo internetka fikrad ahaan, waxaan ula jeda macnaheda ma aha qofka markaad is barataan in aad shekeda ka bilabesaan waa ku jeclahay lakin waa wasiilad ama jid laysku barto sida telphonka iwm sidaas oo ay tahay ayaa hadana tahay in aad qofka aad jeclanayso aragtaa lana dhaqantaa ilaa xad, laakiin aniga waxaan fahmin WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE IYO WHEN YOU LIKE SOMEONE waxay ku kala duwan ama noogu kala duwanyahiin somali hadaan nahay , waxaa arkaysaa wiil iyo gabar somali ah oo isla socdo sanado hadhona ku dhahaayo waa is jeclaan waynay!!!!!!! bal maxay iska ag qabanayeen. aniga ilama aha in la adkeeyo macnaha erayga JACEEL qofka hadii uu kaa helo maanta bari.. bari danbe..bisha danbe.... maxaa ku xigo???? dhalinyaro jaceelkii waxaba ka dhigteen arin u bahan fakar, fiirsasho,qabaqaabo,iyo waliba taxadar, anigase waxaan amisanahay jaceelka in uu intisa xooga leh ya yimado xaga alle, taasna waxan u daleelsanayaa RASUULKA
SCW markii la waydiyay oo la dhahay ""rasuulaw madama ay xaasaskada kuwa jecelyihiin maxaad sida goonida ah ugu jeceshahay CAASHA, Rasuulka waxuu ku jawaabay MAXABA MINA ALLAH jaceelka waa mid ka yimado xaga alle" marka war iyo dhamaantiis neefta ha isku celinina iska ilooba KAHILITANKAAN aan dhamaaneen.

HADAAN QALDAMAY HA LAY SAXO


nabadee

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Falis

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To Dr_Run_sheg:
haa waa somali kuwa aan shaygayo.

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Suhayla

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To Anon69:
I do not dispute the word "love" in its rhetorical aspect is elusive. To those who claim that they drunk from its potent potion say that they have been transformed and transferred to higher level of conscientiousness. The "love" the die hard and the poets talk about is extremely destructive and it dampens vivacious souls. Those believers coquet with insanity and I never envy them nor have I wished to be in their shoes.
May be we are fruitlessly overanalyze something that is highly abstract. May it is an experience exclusive to those volunteer to sacrifice.
I have not read the book you mention, but I think I agree with excerpt. LOL

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Anon69

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Suhayla:

LOL... nice analogy.

as for the book, the writer went on to become one of the greatest writers in Canada. She writes very elongley and very story like that you get caught up & gret transported to era of 1950's in Somalia. I understand being matematician & Statician, you work is cut out for you but if you get a chance read it, you wound be disappointed. It's available online either on Barnes & Noble or Amazon.com (roughly about $7 & change)

Take care

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Cabdi

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To Aniso C:

Walaashiis maxaa dhacay oo pagekaan adiga lagaaga waayay?
Marka ani su aashaan maad iiga soo jawaabi kartaa malaga yaaba in aad inta nin isku barataan?

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Suhayla

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To Anon69:
Thank you very much bro, I will try to read the book and will let you know what I think of it. Good luck for ... in the internet if you are seriously searching . Lol

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Anon69

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Suhayla:

Ouch !!!! that was below the belt, ....LOL

Enjoy the Book, I will be waiting in tense , nail biting state. :-)

Peace.

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Caro

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To: all of u

be careful ladies(men)sababtoo ah wiil ayan isku baranay internet waxuu ii shegay inuu single yahay waxuna igu soo boqday magaladan daganaa kadib markuu ku noqday meshuu daganaa waxaan ogaday inuu nag qabo labo ilmodna leyahay markas gabdho hala iska ilaaliyo nimankan somalida.

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Suhayla

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To Anon 69:
Sorry to disappoint you! I never claim that I was a saint. What do you expect. I was cornered. I will try hard to preserve the expected etiquette.

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Qurux boob

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to deeqa!
baaskiil amoore waa lagu dhisi karaa xitaa wuxuu ka fiican yahay adoo gabar ferarri u soo qaata!!
markay baaskiilka meesha gadaal kaga fariisato ,dhexdana kugu dhegto..dhabanka gadaal kaa saarto,intaad meel dhagax leh la raadsato bahalku saaldeeyo ,dabadeed kugu dhegto,dabadeed heerkulkaagu kor u koco ,indho naxariis leh dib aad ugu fiiriso,ayaduna (ihi) kuu tiraahdo ..maxaa ilka caddayn ah...wa kaas oo baabuur intaa ka hel!!

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Anon69

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Suhayla:

Sista, I hear you, but please don,t conform to any rules, we like you the way your are. Slight harshness with a twist ..... LOL

When are you starting the consulting business?

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Suhayla

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To Anon69:
You are a gentleman. Thank you for your support.
I am in the process of taking the classes to prepare the Novell exams - CNE. Hopefully I will pass the grueling preparations and exams. This is my first step in my attempt to starting that business.
Enough about me. what about you?

To all:
I have the following question:
Suppose you were very enchanted with the "beloved" as luck would have it things did go as planned and you got married to another would you be happy all the same?

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Alex

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Suheyla is there any particular reason that you taking Novell instate of Microsoft. Don't get me wrong I love NDS. It's a superior OS I'm a dyhart Novell just beeen converted to the much inferior OS.Just started doing Linux. bye sis Alex here till next time.

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Suhayla

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To Alex:
Since it has more market share I thought that it will be a more appropriate start. You are very welcome and will appreciate any advice and all particulars.

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Alex

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Suheyla Novell use to have what is called Install base that is the number of Novell server installed worldwide. That has been broken at the beginning of this year. They no longer have that title. Basically I donít want to see someone invest this much time and money then hear that we are looking for Microsoft people. Also Microsoft will come out with active directory sometime this year which is what the market is waiting for, if it becomes a good product, Novell is in a deep problem Plus Linux operating system is a big player now most of the ISPís (Internet service providers are using Linux for their web servers. You might want to investigate of were the market is headed. Go to www.ZDNET.com and read some of their publications.

Bye Alex.

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Anon69

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Suhayla:

Thanks, and likewise. as for the IT, I am currently observing from the side lines, seems this career is evolving at a vorcious pace. what was a sure thing few months ago becomes a dinasour in a short period. But I intended jump in soon.

Since you are a matematician, there is a high demand for your kind of profession in the financial sector, have you exhausted that avenue or is this just a change of career for you?

To Alex:

didn't the windows NT overtake Novell? I think I read some where that not long ago there was a change of guard at the top in Novell, and now their strategy was to recapture some market share without taking Microsoft head on like the previous ousted CEO did. In your opinion what's the outlook for these competing products?

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To Cabdi:

Walaakiis waa ku salaamay. Aboow ma laga yaabo inaan inta nin ka xiriirno walaal tinimo laga yaabo laakiin intaas wax ka badan ma u maleeynaayo ineey dhaceeyso taas.

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Alex

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To Suheyla: Yes there was a change at the top of the helm at Novell Nurada set down Eric Schmitt came from Sun Corp. So far he stopped Novell sliding down ward and they came out with lots of good products, however they have not gained much of a market share he just toped the loss of market share. As far as it goes the better product Most people know that netware is the better product but Microsoft has the best marketing department money can buy and they do buy lots and lots of add at major computer magazines. Now there is a new player in town and is called llinux. Wait and see at what happens.

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Anon69

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Alex:

so in your opinion Novell is the better product even though microsoft got the dough to grab the lions share of this market.

Llinux, wasn't that a new programming language out of a Co. in VA?

Peace

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Alex

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Anon69 yes Novell is better but money and demand rule this world. as they say in the movie "go west young man" I say go with the market bro" So what is new in DC bro?

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Anon69

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Alex:

Thanks for the info bro. Actually I used to live in D.C. many moons ago, relocated because of work to an area in the East Coast, but I like to make the time to be in D.C. on summertime specially :-)


Take Care

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Doclove

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are you looking for someone doc'runsheege
if is that so say it let's us hear it you know it is possible why are asking us.just say if you are looking for someone no excuses got it bro or sis


doclover

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Suhayla

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Hi guys how come that nobody is writing about this subject any more. Did we exhausted all the possible savenues?
Till next.

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Suhayla

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Hi guys, how come that nobody is writing about this subject any more. Did we exhaust all the possible avenues?
Till next.

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Dr_run_sheeg

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to. suhayla

dont tell me you are getting l.o.n symtons
@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@lol

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Suhayla

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To Dr_Run_Sheeg:
I am a realist and not a romantic. How dama la'aan!!!!!!

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Gabar Yaban

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***********Walaladay Qaliga Somaliyeed***********
Waan yabanahay mise fajacsanahay, ayamahaan love in the net aa idoxay. Doxid kuronaa waba iga dhaxbaxay and i don't know whether it is been hawas iyo in kale ee maxaa ka ledahay?

TO: Dr_Run_sheg walaal wujiraa waxa aad sheygaysid love in the net balse garanmaayo haduu yahay mid warayo sidii dad bad yirahdeen. Dr uma malenayo in aan ku habonahay qof ka jawabi karo sua'shaan lakin waxaan ku shaygi in uu meel qab iyo siiyay.
Bacasalaaaaaaaaaaaaam.

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Faynuus

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salaan dhamaan

TO gabar yaban,

walaal waxba ha yaabin hana ka baqin jaceelka in uu waaro u badan ogowna wax kaste hawaas bay ku bilawdaan.

nabadee

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Alex

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A new two-year degree is being offered at Life University that many of you should be interested in: Becoming a Real Man. That's right, in just six trimesters, you, too, can be a real man as well as an AA degree (AA Real Men). Please take a moment to look over the program outline.


FIRST YEAR

Autumn Schedule:
MEN101 Combatting Stupidity
MEN102 You, too, can do housework
MEN103 PMS-Learn When to Keep Your Mouth Shut
MEN104 We Do Not Want Sleezy Things for Christmas

Winter Schedule:
MEN110 Wonderful Laundry Techniques
MEN111 Understanding The Female Response to Getting in at 4 AM
MEN112 Parenting: It doesn't End with Conception
EAT100 Get a Life, Learn to Cook
EAT101 Get a Life, Learn to Cook
ECON001A What's Hers is Hers

Spring Schedule:
MEN120 How NOT to Act Like an ASSHOLE When Your Wrong
MEN121 Understanding Your Incompetence
MEN122 YOU, the Weaker Sex
MEN123 Reason to Give Flowers
ECON001B What's Yours is Hers

Second Year

Autumn Schedule:
SEX101 You CAN Fall Asleep Without It
SEX102 Morning Dilemma: If it's Awake, Take A Shower
MEN201 How to Stay Awake After Sex
MEN202 How to Put the Toilet Seat Down
Electives (See Electives Below)

Winter Schedule
MEN210 The Remote Control: Overcoming Your Dependency
MEN211 How to NOT to Act Younger Than Your Children
MEN212 You, Too, Can be a Designated Driver
MEN213 Honest, You Don't Look Like Tom Cruise Especially When Naked.
MEN230A Her Birthdays and Anniversaries Are Important 1

Spring Schedule
MEN220 Omitting @#$%! from Your Vocabulary (Pass/Fail Only)
MEN221 Fluffing the Blanket After Farting is not Necessary
MEN222 Real Men Ask for Directions
MEN223 Thirty Minutes of Begging is NOT Considered Foreplay
MEN230B Her Birthdays and Anniversaries Are Important 2

Course Electives
EAT101 Cooking With Tofu
EAT102 Utilization of Eating Utensils
EAT103 Burping and Belching Descreetly
MEN231 Mothers-in-Law
MEN232 Appear to Be Listening
MEN233 Just Say "Yes, Dear"
ECON001C Cheaper to Keep Her (Must Pass Econ001B)

Brother alex has dropped out most of this classes and retaking it I need help Ladies

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Alex

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Suheyla This University has been hard for Alex. I have been basically kicked out of all the classes. So someone needs to write one of those books that is title something for Dummies that has the yellow covers. As of love on ciber space. can't find love in any space, siber or otherwise. Maybe we should explore other ways. does anyone have an idea?

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Mind reader

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Alex, what about the landlord?

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LANDLORD

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I AM MOVING TO NORWAY.
BYE, TINA

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Anon69

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Alex:

LOL... I flunked that University too, remember we use to play "shax" outside while classes were in session, classical symptons of dropouts :-)

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Suhayla

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To Alex:
The course layout was so funny . I laughed so hard. I am lost as well!!! We seriously need some help from the rest of the panel. Pool our resources to come up with some of the solutions.
More research is needed. I will let you know what I find out!!!!

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Anonymous

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TO be in love.i can belive inlove.but what i dont belive is how can someone fall in love in the computer.imean i will love to but how can someone tell me how...

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Huuh

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if you read many defrent adies on the somalinet may be you can love which you get is his adies
and then you can tell hem if you like to know more things abuot him

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Mr Cool

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Did anyone pass the Alex "University"? Just wondering! If some of yous did, then tell us the grade(that is 100%-0%)
Alex, what was your grade? Was it that bad? Don't be shy! Tell us!
Bye

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Alex

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Mr. Cool Iím failing the pre requests (the dating game). I donít know what to do.

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Mr Cool

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To Allex,
Well Allex tell me first how badly you are? I might help.
What are the (dating games)? I don't date (because there are a lot of Allexs around) "just kidding". But I know what a woman likes. So reavel your secrets to me, I will listen and help.

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Alex

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Gee Doctor how can I do that. You want me to talk in public. Iím shy guy
How about if I visit you at your office.

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Layla

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To: Alex
I always dream about to graduate from university someday, as i am here today Alex's university my dream is becoming to reality.i have seen those tremendes courses that Alex's university offered and i took one of them which was "How to stay awake after sex" I am done the course seccessfully and i am glad i passes, i got A+ grate.
hope to see some of you at next year and tanks to alex.

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Mr Cool

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To Allex,
Dear, don't be shy afterall this is the net! So tell me your feelings. Mr Cool understands your pain.
p.s. I think my office is far from you. But you could pretend that this is my office.

To Layla,
Are you male or female? Sorry but you never know what might come out behind the name. But I assume that you are a male since you went to the Allex Uni. Well done for the A+!

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Ladan

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OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOh my god, Alex bro your subjets where so funny man and that was one hell of University, but for most of our bro's they need that kind of classes, but you know what most of guys don't even pass first semester subjects, so it was not such a dissapointment that you didn't make it, but don't worry there might be other things that you might be good at!!!!!! Like now you sound like some one with since of humour, but lets hope you are not as an old fellow!!!!!!!!!JUST KIDDING!!!!

P.s Mr Cool man you got it going on. Alex man no offence but how old r u???????? Just wondering!!!!

Anyway peace N' love

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Layla

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TO: Alex
hi dear, thanks for asking who i am,
and i am very gald to answer it, I am female and i enjoy being in Alex University.
by Layla

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Alex

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Sorry ladies to responding this late. Mr. Cool you saying think this as your virtual office. That is cool I can live with that. You see my problem is all the classes I sing up for the female teachers are ugly as Woppy Goldbug (the comedian). Iím trying to get into classes that are tough by the likes of Holly Berry. So What I do is as soon as an ugly teacher I try hard to get an F.

To Ladan I donít thing age will be a problem, if itís I can always use VIAGRA.

So what is next Mr. cool.

PS: If you ask for money at the end of my therapy expect virtual money.

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Ladan

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Alex, Sweety lets be natural ok, VIAGRA is scientific product! And my point was if you are one HOT BABA! You shouldn't have trouble finding your miss! So bro peice of advice try the GYM, once you get that glowing look, believe me they will running after you! The body works like a magnet! But if you are one "fluppy" brother C'mon (not that I am saying you are), there is nothing to look! Try to those Six pack's they works pretty well, and with your personality you shouldn't have trouble!

Till next time love N' peace

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GUNIWINE

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LADAN


I LOVE THE WAY YOU TALK GIRL.BABY WHY DON'T YOU GIVE ME YOUR EMAIL SO WE CAN TALK.

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Mr Cool

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To Alex,
Oh dear..... Teachers.. lets not talk about them..... I had a tutor that had a thing for me. Well the tutor was young, 23 year old and a computer engineer, the only problem was that the tutor was a female. You can guess what happened... I failed and I had to do the subject over summer. But lets go back to your problem.... You went to the uni to learn not to check out the hot sisters around! Well tell me..... Do you just went there to get a hot babe? If so, bro you are lost.
My advice to you is ignore the teachers but if they hit on you just do as I did, skip all classes.

p.s. About money.... thank you but I don't need that. I am doing this for fun! But thank you for the virtual money offer!

To Ladan,
You go girl! Alex has one cool personality I wonder though.... You know what I mean.

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Ladan

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Guniwine, sweety lets say the sis is not avalaible! No hard feelings huh! But thanks for the offer!

Mr Cool babe I missed ya! Where you at girl?

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Mr Cool

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To Ladan,
Sis I missed ya too! I am always in the same place but I have been waiting for u today in the same place!
So what you say about Genuine, nice feller!

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Alex

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Dear Mr.: Cool thank you for the advice and the nice compliment even thoug it had a twist it. You see the university Iím talking about is the dating one not a real university. That one I have been kicked out by was a peeping Tom. The wonder you have about me can be resolved.

To Ladan will you be my personal trainer please. I have a spiritual consultant that would me Mr. cool and you will be my personal trainer, then there is only one person missing from thisÖÖ.. I canít get the word (I have a limited vocabulary).

Ladan I donít think I will need Viagra I think Iím the energizer bunny buy I donít know if the battery still is working):

Bye for now.

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Concerned Brotha

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Ladan & Alex

this short prayer is for ya!!!!!!!
_________________________________________

Single Sisteh's Bedtime Prayer!

Now I lay me down to sleep,
I pray for a man who will not creep.
One who's hansome, smart and strong,
and able to admit when he is wrong.
One who thinks before he speaks,
and doesn't disappear for weeks.
I pray that he is gainfully employed,
won't clam up when he is annoyed
Please send me a man who'll open my door.
Pull out my chair and want to do more.

Send me a man who'll make love to my mind,
But who knows what to do when he hits from behind.
One who'll make love till my body's twitching,
and bring me a sandwich too, when he comes back from the kitchen!

I pray that this man will love me to no end,
and will not try to sleep with my best girlfriend.
I pray this prayer in the Lord's name,
Oh, and by the way Lord, deliver me from the weak game. Thank you in advance and I'll just wait, for I know you'll send him before it's too late.


Single Broth's Bedtime Prayer

As I crawl into my sack,
I pray for a women who aren't wack
A sistah who knows how to act,
who won't neglect, and will call back
A girl who's smart, and sweet and stacked,
and knows when to shut her trap,

Who won't act ill & disrespect,
or run her mouth and sweat my check,
who will not ask me if she's fat,
In this red dress or these brown slacks,

I pray for the one who is well-bred,
I cannot deal with chicken-heads,
I need a love of give and take,
Not " what you drive", "how much you make",

When lunch and dinner bills approach,
If you don't reach....don't ask for Coach,
I want a dime with thighs and lips
not nickel broads on ego trips,

I want one who loves me for me,
not what her girls think I should be,
To fill my life with joy non-stop

I need one for cuddles, light kisses and pecks,
but she'd know that sometimes....I just wanna have sex,

If I were to find her this very day,
then I would cease in my doggish ways,
there'd be no more creeping, I'd sing songs like Joe's. But until that day comes, I have no love for you.

Peace.

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Alex

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Amen

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Mr Cool

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To Conerned Brother,
That was good keep up the prayer! I loved the prayer for Ladan! Man.... you are really one concerned brother!

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Mr Cool

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To Ladan,
Lets help the poor lost brother (Alex) "he might be my next victim"(if you know what I mean)!
Bye Bye

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Ladan

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AMEN!

OOOOOOOOOOOOOh guys! Concerned brother baby you are one hell concerned brother! Thanks for the prayer!

Alex sweety, I can be your trainer if you put your gurds down! And let me and Mr Cool help surely we can! sweety if you don't need to use VIAGRA then it's all good! So I am sure thoes batteries are still working.

Mr Cool....girl you know I am not there on thursday's...but as usuall I will be there tommorow....And we probably do something together! Till then take care and luv ya babe!

All the others maan, keep it up!

Love N' Peace

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Mr Cool

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To Ladan,
don't forget your prayer tonight!
Love ya!
Alex my dear Alex,
I was wondering how old you were before I do my job? Don't forget your prayer tonight!

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Alex

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That is it you guys want to victimize me. That is not fare. I trusted you guys and believing in you. Now I see you want to play with my emissions. Iím going to file a complain to the boards you belong to. You said it next victim. Why do you want to victimize? Anyway I prayed last night and Gus who did I see in my drams holly Berry. My prayers have been answered. It was a wonderful dream now I just wish if I could do it for real.

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Ladan

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OOOOOOh, Alex, sweety it wasn't me who said the word "VICTIM", It was Mr Cool....you better asnwer his question girl! Which is Alex why is the next victim. But remember alex dear I only wanted to help.....I don't have any personal interest in you, no offence you could be one hot mama, but hey you wouldn't even tell us how old you where? I must say we are bit worried we could be dealing with our grandba here! So please don't hesitate to answer!

Mr Cool, even though I said my prayers last night, nothing happened! But I will keep trying! luv ya 2 !

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Mr Cool

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To Alex,
Bro believe in me! Don't be afraid, this is just net. I don't consider you my victim yet! Don't get shocked now please don't. So dear let me take care of you. Tell me all your dating games problems and I might help. I have a victim already so I am going to be busy for a while then you will be next.. ops did I say that .... now don't get scared I am just kidding. Take it as a joke for now! ops did I say that again... So seriously say whatever is in your mind.

Ladan dear did you get your sandwich? I mean from the prayer! The concerned brother was really good.
You guys made the poor bro concerned! Well done!

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Concerned Bro

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Glad that you all identified with the Prayers, from each gender's prospective.

Alex, hope the therapy is going well be assured that you are in the hands of experts - Ladan & Mr cool. Just trust them & let them take control Don't fight it, the end result is very rewarding.

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Mr Cool

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To Concerned Bro,
Thank you so much for your support!
Alex dear, we are here for you!

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Ladan

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Alex baby, where have you gone? You don't have to be affraid dear! Let us take in control, I promise we wont hurt you. Mr Cool and I will try to be very gentle...

Mr Cool dear, I didn't get the sandwich! But did you get your kuji kuji on Saturday???? Just wondering! Baby take care!


To Concerned bro.... Bro thanks for the support and I am sure Alex is in good hands! And your nick name suites you! Because you are one hell of concerned brother!

All you take care!

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Alex

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Sorry ladies I have been busy. My problem is where are the drop-dead gouges Somali girls gone. The other thing is there is lots of finger pointing between the two spices. The interrogation is tough. Then I ask my self is it worth all the trouble, then I loose interest. So ladies how can you help. I s it only me, or is the nature.
How was the weekend by the way?

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Ladan

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Alex.

Can I ask you a question bro, where in the world are you? Cuz I am sure there are few drop-dead gourges girls at your town, So you need to look around, too bad there are few at where I am but, it would be hard to reach them. So dear don't loose interest yet, cuz you have come long way. Bay the way if you are the guy that you said you are, which was a guy with one hell of personality, then you shouldn't have any problem. peice of advice you need to go to where somali functions are happening, cuz you might see the most of the girls around those places. I can't think of any other places that they might be.

Ooh the weekend was fine. How was yours?

Peace N' Love

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Mr Cool

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To Ladan,
Sis I got a bit shameless, I am out of control, I got kuji kuji on sunday but I don't know how to stop it, believe me I have done everything to stop it.
Is a long story I got to tell you what happened on friday.
To Alex,
Dear, how can I help you? These days Ladan will be busy with me cauze I need help as well, I made this mess and I don't know how to fix it. Well If I fix it I might hurt people but if I don't I will be hurt. So there is no way out for me. Well is hard to follow my story so I will stop it.

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Mr Cool

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To Ladan,
They just told me you skipt all your classes and left with latifa. What happened girl? Is there anything that you want to tell me? Well take care babe! See yaa! I saw your friend from high school!
About the kuji just kidding! Wanted to make you laugh! I am sorry about the sandwithch! well next time will go better so keep trying! (hee heeeeeeeeeeeeeee)
Bye Babe!

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Ladan

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Mr Cool, cuz Latifa was sick besides I had to do my assignment, so classes where not my first pririoty. Sweety who is the friend from high school? Girl, don't tell me you lost control again! Baby be careful remember the advice mama gave you. I want you to remember that, but anyway what happen on saturday/sunday???? Details girl,detials Ok. You know mama bear want except anything else! So stay cool And remember Mama bear luv's U!

Alex, Dear are you ok? Cuz these days you don't reply was often as you use to. I must admit I am worring about you dear? So let us know what's up Ok?


Love N' Peace

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Mr Cool

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To Ladan,
I love my moma bear!
Babe is a long story, I don't know what to do and I think I need your help. Well I just had my presentation now. ... I freaked out at the start then I remembered that I am Mr Cool so I did fine!
I missed my moma bear! I will make you laugh on friday!
Alex dear, what happened we are busy too but can't you find a minute to write babe? Well actually in my case I am always sitting in front of the computer even when I am working I always have five sec. to write and freak my brians out as S.Victim said!

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Ladan

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Mr Cool

Dear I forget that you had your presentation, but as always I knew you will manage it somehow. Girl I will see you on Friday, so we will have plenty of time to laugh and chat.

Before that keep in touch ok.

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Alex

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Dear ladan thank you for your kind words. Sorry if I donít reapply fasts enough. Iím kind of away from the keyboard these days. Well I Gus I need to hang out where the ladies are. l will do just that. The weekend was short as always. I see Mr. Cool is having problems, well Mr. Cool be careful donít herth the boys too much he might have a fragile ego. Bye for now.

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Ladan

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Dear Alex I am glad that my words were kind enough. But hey just remember we need to hear from you now and then ok. Besides if the lucky lady come's along tell us all about it! Ok.GOOD LUCK BRO!

Bye guys!

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Mr Cool

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To Alex,
Dear as I say always as long as there is a man on earth I have a victim! What I mean take it for homework is something for you to think about!
But this time I am the victim in somehow cauze I am in love with the guy. (I am just kidding about everything, don't take me 4reall)

Good luck bro on your search.

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MRlover

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TO ladan the advicer:

sis i am a lonely bro and when ever i try to read the net the name i see is yours. can you help and please don't inform mr cool cuz the reason i am is she dis me.
the problem is she is too advanced and i am little bit slow to adopt the changes.
I have one other question the somali sis, They always in a high school don't they pass to uni or i got it they are too thick to pass the sex session as i it happen to me...lol
love you all

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Ladan

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MrLover.

Dear you seemed little confused there are sisters who pass hich school and go on to Uni, like my self and Mr Cool. So bro I think you have been dealing with the wrong chicks.


About you being lonely,how do you want me to help.I just had little trouble understanding what you where seeking for. Oooh bay the way, if you are slow, then believe me bro we have problem.Cuz I am not very pattient person. Slow people intiminate me. Babe No offence.

Till then Luv You's!

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nina

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hi guys

well i meet prince chraming on the net.i never in a million years thought that i would meet him on line. well let me get to the point.he is funny, caring, responsible, a mean cook, handsome, financially secure,respectfull, and knows how to treat a lady right. at first i thought this is too good to be true but as it turned out that he was for real.

ur properly wondering whats wrong this picture.
well here is the catch he is not somalian. for ur knowledge i was a little disappointed be this.so here is my question.

SHOULD I KICK IT WITH HIM OR SHOULD I DROP HIM.
and please be truthfull in ur answer.

to all the people who write in somali, could u be so kind as to write in english becuase i have a really hard time as reading ur column.

all answers wellcome

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SiHaM

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Amina: I guess you are not in Love. What you mean by "should I drop him"? When You're in love, you should be in love with the person regardless. So what if he is not Somali? As long as he is muslim you have nothing to worry. Sure your parents will be disppointed. But hey they are not going to live your life for you. If you love each other that is all that matters.

Sister love is an emotion. So many times you fall in love with a person knowing that maybe they aren't the one for you but yet you still can't run from the feeling in your heart. If love was a decision, then you would be free to walk away. But since it's an emotion, you just can't walk away from your heart that easily. But remember you're selfish if you're playing games with the person. IT IS NOT FAIR. You should be straight forward.

P.S.If you're having second thoughts about him. Probably you love him but you're not in love with him. Remember, what goes around comes around. Don't waste his time!


Later!

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Rah Diggs

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Siham well said. What is the difference between loving and being in love? it confuses me.

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Anonymous

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Nina- Sister I have a question, DID you not ask him if he were somali?
Sister I have dated non-Somalis but it is never the same, sis Love fades so be careful who you end up with.

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nina

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hey guys

well i did ask him of his nationality but that has not stop me from chating with him.. but i'm really confused if this is love or just lust since i have never experienced what real love really is.whenever i get email from him i get so excited that i jump up and down if no one is watching that is. i get this big grin on my face and it makes me happy to know that i have recieved email from him. we chat for hours and
hours and it seems that i don't wana say good night but continue it.i never get bored with him.sometimes i think i'm going crazy and it's hard to ask someone guestions about love.
this is my only to getting advice without u knowing my true identity.

p.s. shiman my name is nina not amina.

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SiHaM

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Rah Diggs:
Loving is the everyday, deeply caring and devotedness to someone you hold special in heart and mind. It may be your partner, child, parent or sibling even a special friend. Being in love is almost indescribable, the catch in your heart when you see him, the look in his eyes when you know he sees your soul, the total communication of two people drawn to each other body and mind.

Nina:
True love is a two-way street, where as lust is a one-sided thing, existing as a fantasy in the mind of the imaginer. Its effects, usually feelings of joy, peace and happiness of both parties can see true love. Lust is lonesome and painful while true love is fulfilling and joyful.

Anonymous: If you love someone it shouldn't matter what is his nationality or the colour of his skin.

P.S. The funny thing is you spelled my name wrong too. I don't know if it was on purpose or not. But I get the point.


Later!!!!

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HAKKEEM

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WHA WAS ALL DAT FOR?
HA,MAN PRAYERS AND ALL DAT.
NAH COMMON...

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Venus

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To, DR.Who
LOve is a diesase That eventually doesn't attack you CUZ yeah,love isn;t something you can explain, It's what you feel inside not what you think!Pulz you and your yellow teeth are what strays you from love!Take action, and then maybe you could get a life, Cuz u wish u had 1!

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kusseey

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looooooooooooooooooooooool qurux bood

qurux bood ......waa iga qosolsiisay walee..ar xaaja qamsiinta gadaal maka soo kori karaa hee..ala yaa awootiying ku shukaansaday fatuurad yar........fiiri xaajiga jaakatiinkii soo xira yaah....anina waxaa soo xiri na gabagaabkii aad jecleed......loooooooool just playing yow

hey by way people ..this is one page where i don't see hebel........i wonder what happened ..let me guess change of outfit.....or better yet change of personaltly

hebel i miss ya buddy
nuff love

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