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Why don't somalian men believe when you tell them that you love them more than anyone else?

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some girl

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 10:40 pm
waad salaamatihiin walaalayaal

I would really like to know the problem with somalian men that they don't believe when you tell them that you love them more than anybody else, that it makes you rib your heart out.

thanks everyone

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A222

Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 02:24 pm
Some girl

You don't have to love all Somali men but try to find just one who is a good muslim. Then, you never worry about your love any more!

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some girl

Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 03:06 pm
To A222
1.thanks for your comment

I am not talking about loving all somalian men, but I mean is that when you fall in love with one and you tell them how you feel about them they think you are not telling the truth.

Peace

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SAHRAALI

Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 06:36 am
DEAR SIS

THE PROBLEM IS NOT THAT THEY DON'T BELIEVE U, BUTMOST OF THEM REALY DON'T HAVE THE CONFIDENCE TO BE WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE. SO SIS

THEY HAVE TO BE CONFORTABLE IN THEIR SHOES BEFORE YOU MY DEAR DISHOUT THE LOVE POTIONS.

GOOD LUCK TO U

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A222

Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 09:43 am
Some girl

You too

In Somali traditional about the process of marriage, girls never expose(display) their falling love with guys, but they give hints and tell them to see their parents(ladies' prents).
So, now guys can believe that ladies love them truely.

Look! ladies, Watch out! If you ignore the tradition, you will stress in it!!

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Qadar

Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 08:07 am
DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO PROVE HIM HOW
MUCH U LOVE'EM...MAYBE THAT MIGHT
HELP EVEN IF IT'S RISKING UR LIFE
FOR THEM.....TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES...

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the rebel

Friday, February 02, 2001 - 10:25 am
i thought it was the other way around, something must be wrong. the somalian girls i had contact with, if they sensed i was fall for them kept their head high to get assures from their friend. i think the message they got was don't sell your self short. but i wait to see were it leads them.....

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rebel

Friday, February 02, 2001 - 10:27 am
either should you sell your self short, if your arrive is not sense..then look the other way

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Ismail H.

Sunday, February 04, 2001 - 12:55 pm
First and foremost ďsome girlĒ, u should change the title u gave to this topic. It must be: ďWhy donít the Somali men I met believe when you tell them that you love them more than anyone else?Ē
Yes in deed, we ought only to talk about at this point the men u have known and conduct themselves that way, even thought I donít know the full story about urself.
As a matter of fact, itís unwise to generalized or tell stereotypes about a race, group of people, or a society. Everyone is unique. Although, I feel for u sister. I know, it ainít easy to tell someone that u love them. Not to mention that they turn their backs on u and repudiate the love u are offering. However, that is not a motive to accuse all Somali men of unkindness, cruelty, and heartlessness. Besides, if u let someone know that u feel affection for them and they doubt u, that means they donít feel the same way about u and therefore they will put on masks to conceal those feelings if they donít wanna be truthful with u. And if they are straightforward with u, they will tell u. Once again, I don't have the full picture of ur love life so I can't be more precise. Nevertheless, u gotta know that love is all about trust and respect. Moreover, if they acted that way, they ainít worth ur love. There are a lot of terrific guys out there. U mustnít surrender and most importantly u gotta maintain hope alive, ur shining prince is around the corner.

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jiijo

Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 11:32 am
never say never i love you man say i hate you if you love him.

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kinsi

Saturday, February 10, 2001 - 12:44 pm
Ismail H
long story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! keep it short and interesting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by the way do u give this advice to ur sister


peaceKinsi

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