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| Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 11:16 am |
I have a question...can a girl and a guy really be friends in our somali tradition because i have guys as a friend because i really don't get alone with girls that much. most girls just talk without thinking about the consiquences but guys do that too but not often... if u are under 15 and a girl and a boy can be friends but when u are over 15, they think of other things but don't the parents know that we mean no harm by the fact that we are just friends and no more because my guy friends know me and they don't judge or talk behind my back, that is least most of them but the girls in boston are two faced little brats and the guys are, some of them jealous freaks! in respond to this please be gentle!
| Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 08:11 pm |
First of all I want say hi sis
second, if you asking "does somalian tradition allows to have a guy as a friend" I think the answer would be NO and not why.
Although, if you respect them as guys and don't do things that you wouldn't do or say fornt of other guys, They can be friends. And one thing don't ever say or believe that you can trust because you know him and the reason I am saying that is you will never know guys even if you think of him as brother or you know him since 1 yr, still his a man. So watch out
I hope you understand what I mean
Take care sis
| Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 09:18 pm |
since u mentioned the word gentle a'll do my best not to disrecpect ur ass.
amaal having a guy friends is pleasent thing as longest he knows hes limits.
second thing they say best friends make best caples not that im giving u hint or anything like that.
what makes special ur friendship is that both of u have respect for each other also care for each other too, but sooner or latter someone is ganna get hurt becouse of emortional feeling well if he falls for u or u fall for him it will be different story and i tall ya what it wouldn't be first time when too best friends fall in love.
well thats my opinion anyway and also speaking from experiance too lol shushshsh don't tell anybody aight.
amaal just be ready for anything dear coz man can be so cruel sometimes he can also be a gentle too
pss i wonder if it bothers u when hes with other girls???
psss enjoy ur life while u still young sis
good luck sis
| Thursday, August 31, 2000 - 08:09 am |
TO FAIZA AND THE MANn,,demmm,,u say it all
AMAAl,,,girl lisent 2 them...i also have have both gay and girl friends ,,about the guy thing,,,there are same that we grow up together,,,but still,,,,u have to have same "hishood" cuz if u don't have that guy won't respect ,,there is fara ka ciyaar if u alow guy 2 do that ,,,i am not saying that they do that 2 u but i know same they say """ he is my friend that is ok...and iam like my fried my ass cuz he is man u are women have same cishood ,,,,let me get back 2 my self,,,yeah i have both like i sayed guys and girls but still...i tell them every thinh ,,cuz they are my friends ,,but when u talking 2 girls,,,u can say anything ,without feeling inberes!! so girl...what makes special ur friendship is that both of u have respect for each other also care for each other too,,gode luck sis
| Tuesday, September 05, 2000 - 06:52 am |
GOOD QUESTION AND AM BE HONEST
GUYS ARE NICE TO CHILL WITH AND ALL BUT ALSO EVIL AM GUY I HAVE ALOT FEMAIL FRIENDS AND GIRLFRIEND AS WELL AND I CANT HONESTLY SAY THE THOUGHT OF HAVING SEX WITH MY FEMAIL FRIEND HASNT CROSSED MY MIND JUST ABOUT MILLION TIME AND OH YEAH I AM SLEEPIN WITH 2 OF MY FEMAIL FRIENDS RIGHT ABOUT NOW SO BE CAREFULL SOME TIME GOES WRONG TO TOO FAR
| Tuesday, September 05, 2000 - 07:26 am |
Hi,, I have plenty of girl-friends, as long as each of u know where u stand then it shouldn't be a problem to be friends... and as long as u don't hang about together everwhere itz cool.
| Tuesday, September 05, 2000 - 01:47 pm |
thankx all, i really appreciate it...sorry that i haven't kept on date with responces...moving in and all is really headicake, and shopping too!
The question i wanted to ask was can a guy and a girl be friends when it comes to religion! some say yes some say no...what r u going to talk about but the yes part is u r not doing anything wrong...so go for it! what do u guys and my sistas think?
| Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 09:45 am |
a guy and a girl aren't supposed to be friends in Islam. but when it comes to sense, being friends with a guy is ok. as long as you are not attracted to each other. but you will never know what he thinks about you or your body, he could be thinking those things in his head.
i have guy friends and i make it clear , Nothing going on now or ever.
| Friday, September 15, 2000 - 08:10 am |
To the Amal Question about can men and women be friends::: Yes they can be friends if they do respect their the limit between the friendship.
Does Islam mind about men and women to be friendships. they mind, but is limited their friendship men can know a women as up to point in Islam.
I hope this gives you what you were look Amal.
Take care yourself.
| Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 03:11 am |
al-salamu calekum walaalayal
walaalayal analu waxaan nahay umad kuwihi ugu
kheraka badned saas oo ay tahay illahayana nagu faninayo (KUNATUN KHAYARA UMATIN UKHARIJAT LI LAAH TAAMURUNA BIL MACARUF WAA TANAHONAA CANIL MUNAKAR WAA TUMI NUNAA BI LAHI WALO AMAN AHALUL KITABI LAKAANA KHAYARAN LAHUM MINAHUM AL MUMINUN WAA AKATARAHUM AL FASIQOON.)surat al baqara
waxaabd aheden umad laa soo saaro ki...
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