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| Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 07:01 pm |
Hi my ppl, I was just wondering if any of u out there believe in soulmate and love in first sight? Please take little of ur time to answer this for me thank u.
| Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 12:40 am |
i do sis, i believe everyone in this world has a soulmate and they are only truly complete together....well i found mine sis i hope the rest of you find yours and happiness
peace and love
| Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 04:20 am |
Hi...this one is for ...IDIL
how can i women have i soulmate when all the guys are dogs?...im 18 years old girl...yeah... maybe u can say...that i dont know nothing about soulmates and love...but all i know is that love doesent exist and man are cheaters, liers and petraters
dogs...actualy dogs are much better. cuz they listen to u, and go out only when u let them out.
and feel free to send me a massage, my Email is...
| Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 04:24 am |
I mean ....Moonlight_Queen@hotmail.com
| Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 05:28 pm |
SOMALIAN MEN....Think they got 4 soul mates...
| Friday, September 29, 2000 - 02:58 am |
If I ain't disturbin or bringin any beef, or if it isn't a gurl talk LOL Then I would like to take part in thiz...
Well Jasmin that actually is a good Question I thought about it too and YES I DO BELIEVE IT.
I believe everyone has someone out there anywhere in da world. But did u get to da point askin urself when is it? where is that person? damn shame u cannot answer it to urself or none can answer it to u, So all we gotta do is wait and see.
Love at first sight waw ain't that sweet...Well I have to admit that could happen to anyone nothing to do with reasons of love it is to do with attraction and wantin longing for what u see or saw. Besically it is like they say " I like what I see and I want some" LOL don't take da wrong way ppl... Jasmin I don't have any reasons to say why I believe in it I guess it is Natural unless u don't believe in it...
Sis plzzzzz stop insultin me coz I'm a man too and when u Generelize all men u hurt some that r not like others who u callin dogz...
Why is that we somalians Cannot ADMIT or TAKE DA TRUTH... Maymuna Listen u see one two or three or even twenty men acting like foolz more than a dog I agree but that doez not give u da right to insult Sayin ALL MEN...U sayin u r 18 and I know u would be even more mad if I say u too young u old enough to say what u want unless u r weak or disabled wich u r not otherwize u wouldn't be here or understand... My point is meet more men and get to know da good one... How would u know well u can tell by the way they act afcourse and also they way they treat u when u talk to them. If u fall for what they say without knowing him well thaz ur problem...
Maymuna I do not want to argue with u or swear at my sis so plzzzz control urself and say what u want if u have something to say...
Jasmin It has been nice of u to make conversation about thiz well done sis...
Peace N Love
| Friday, September 29, 2000 - 08:55 am |
Hi my sisters and brothers thank u so much for trying and taking the time to answer my question. I hope u all learn something about this and u find the one that makes u happy including me.
Idil, abaayo macaan I am verry happy for u that u found ur soulmate and keep praying for all of us that we do.
Maymuna, abaayo don't generalize please they are good guys out there and u will find them one day. Please,please don't insult them because they are ur father, brother and friends. Next u insult try to think of those three things. peace
Amoore, thank u very much aboowe macaan. I think u expressed ur point of view with respectfully and I thank u for that.
love u all
take care and respect one another
| Friday, September 29, 2000 - 10:02 am |
Ok, I read over all your messages and I totally agree that we all have soulmates. It's really all a matter of finding that person which in reality is virtually impossible. Most people convince themselves that they've found their soulmates only to discover after 30 years of marriage that perhaps it wasnt the right person afterall. My only advice is that finding your soulmate is not impossible but to really search carefully and not allow yourself to be shortsighted and fall for the wrong person.
By the way here's the story of where the concept of soulmate originates from: According to a Greek myth, we were all once paired with the person that makes us complete, our soulmate. Then somehow we humans upset the Gods and as a punishment we were separted from our soulmate. Now we are faced with roaming this lonely world in search of our soulmate. Most of us fail in finding our true second half, and those of us that are fortunate enough find our second half.
| Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 12:22 am |
I do beliave it to but i don't really know when my day will come i shoud wait right? It seems so.
| Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 06:12 am |
I didn't believe in love at first sight or that whole soulmate stuff, I thought it was all a bunch of Hollywood hype you know. Until one day, I looked up, and noticed the most attractive guy I had ever seen in my life, Walaahi my heart stopped and I was short of breath for about half a second(which seemed like an eternity). To make a long story short Im engaged to this guy now. And I guess I proved myself wrong. Love at first sight does exist and your soulmate a.k.a your calaf exist as well. Its only a matter of time before it comes to you. So just be patient cuz you know what they say, good things come to those who are patient. Insha-allah Allah will give you all what you are looking for when the time is just right
| Monday, October 16, 2000 - 12:58 am |
i really don't believe that
i say find the one u love and thats it
u guys are dreaming
that does not happen in the real world
i say find a man with money and live happly
love and peace
| Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 11:41 pm |
Yeah I believe love at first sight exisits but it is only a matter of time before you find it. I think love hits most people when they are least searching for it and when they least expect it. My sister was 30 before she got married to her husband, they are very much in love now 5 years after...she had almost given up on love but then she met him. My mum and dad too are soulmates...I have never seen two people more in love with each then them and thats excatlly what I want when I get married...you know what they say, good things come to those that wait. Therefore I think it's just a question of waiting....
| Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 11:42 pm |
sorry i forgot to say nice topic and to ask you do you believe in soul mates jasmin?
| Thursday, October 19, 2000 - 01:53 pm |
U BEEN GANGBANGED..........GET LIFE
| Friday, October 20, 2000 - 05:11 am |
I dont believe soulmate and love in first sight nonsense. I only believe two things which is money and kuchy, there is no such thing as this nonsense ya'all talking about.
| Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 08:47 am |
This is very exciting topice among young and those who is looking for LOVE soulmate...
I am this guy that have many friends and many other friends ....am just normal guy have taste of live..got style, sense humor, kind, very respected, according to my friends and people who know me. I have been searching soulmate since 1992. I thought i found twice my soulmate but then i thought wrong because i was believing i was the lucky guy and i had everything i wanted "my soulmate". But i thought wrong. Now i am going out with different girls...Don't misunderstand me, am looking for my soulmate, i am not lying to any anyone, but it seems that all somali girls have lost the fiath and believing Love and i dont blame them....
What i wanna say is Soulmate exists and those who have lucky find and i beleive there are so many good girls and guys are out there and one more thing...this is my idea all you Somali girls who are looking for soulmate i mean good partner please don't act like WHITE if you know what i mean. you can always if you wanna fool around. just believing in your self is more then enough.
| Tuesday, October 24, 2000 - 08:33 pm |
Hi pple, thank u so much for all of u who tried to answer my q respectfully.
Ilhan, sis don't worry ur day will come. Like sista said good things come to those who wait, so it is question of waiting. Insha Allah one day prince charming will came rescue u. It sounds fantasy but it does happen in reality.
Sista, thank u sis for saying this is nice topic. Yes i do believe in soulmate but not quite the love at first sight. I mean it can happen but it just didn't happened to me yet. there is someone for everyone out there u just have to look harder.
Anon, I hope u really don't believe that deep inside. U go for men for his money that's shallow.
Normal G, search harder u will find her. She is out their trust me. You sound a nice guy I don't ur going have to wait long time.
waa mahadsantahiin kuligeen
take care and respect one another
| Thursday, October 26, 2000 - 06:37 am |
Hi every one, I believe in Calaf/soulmate,and love in first sight, That is fairy tale, I am not trying to criticize anyone but I have never actually loved anyone when i first met them so, All i know THOSE WHO WAIT AND SEE GET WHAT THEY WANT! Love takes time and once anyone finds it, I encourage u to hold on it because once u lose it, U r incomplete like Sisqo said, My life is incomplete! I thought this topic get ppl to think and reading veryone's respond, I senced ppl who said there is Love at first sight look for appearance, that is what i got out of it and love shouldn't be about that..Love is when your mother first holded u on her arm when u were born, or when she thought u r slipping from her back, that is love Because it is unconditional and u r not trying hard because u r yourself and the person loves it. I for myself is waiting for the right person and not in rush because 'Haraka haraka hana baraka!" All who rushes gets only disapointments. I am sorry if i insulted any one's view or made some one feel weird. I just don't want to love some one because of their appeaance, My best friend who i consider my sister is inlove becaus when i see them together, they have a glow that is so bright u won't miss it. When I see my uncle with his wife, He holds her so tight he doesn't want to loose her even thought she has three kids from another guy. He married her when the whole family went against them, He did not care! I asked him one night, what r u going to about the family...he told me I love both my wife and family equally and I do not know what to do..He also said, LOVE COMES ONLY ONE TIME OTHERS CAN COME BUT ONE WILL MAKE U FEEL SO BRIGHT I DON'T THINK ANYONE WILL NBEED A LIGHT IN A DARK ROOM! I was surprised that he told me that because me and him never actually got a lone before that incident! I guess what i am trying to say is LOve existes in our hearts and calaf exists in our minds that is what keeps us going on the worst days on our lives and my mother told me there is only two places u can actually kill a person, one is HEART AND THE OTHER MIND BECAUSE PHYSICALS HEALS VERY QUICK AND ONE CAN NEVER NOTICE IT, BUT BRAIN MAKES U CRY INSIDE JUST LIKE HEARD. love comes and goes but the feelings never left the person and everyone would want some one love and cherish with the trest of their lives!!!!!
Sorry i wrote too long!!
TAKE CARE PPL AND TAKE CARE YOUR LOVE ONES AND THOSE WHO DON'T LIKE ME ,....WAIT AND SEE LATER ON YOUR LIVES!!
| Thursday, October 26, 2000 - 06:38 am |
IF ANYONE HAS COMMENCE PLZ DIRECT ME WITH MY E'MAIL Shukri555@hotmail.com!!!
Thank you and Jasmin girl I hope i helped u out a little!!!
| Friday, October 27, 2000 - 07:05 pm |
Fist off all i would like to thank to my respected sista jasmine 4 bringing up such a intresting and useful Q to discuss.
Secondly i would like to thank to most of ya'll who took part of this Q 4 giving u're best shot and those of ya'll who were against i hope u learn something from these wow ppl, and i like to say that this is a different side of da community which is good.
but my q is that since yo all or most of ya'll beleive in something why not try and get to know each other coz mybe ya;ll meant to be each others soulmates.
1 luv to ya;ll
| Friday, October 27, 2000 - 09:08 pm |
Hi everyone, first of all I went express my deepest gradatude and respect to everyone who tried to give an respect answer with this hard question, thanks.
Amaal, sis thank u so much for sharing ur life with us. I hope u find that person who complates u.
Abdul, thanks bro and maybe ur right some people may belong to eachother but we just have to wait and see. AGAIN "GOOD THINGS CAME TO THOSE WHO WAIT."
BYEEE YOU ALL
| Monday, November 27, 2000 - 11:01 am |
HEY GUYS...IM SORRY IF I INSULTED OR GENERELIZED
YALL...AND...AMOORE...DON'T TAKE IT PERSONELY CUZ IT IS NOT...IM JUST SAYING WHAT I THINK IT IS THE TRUTH...SOMALIAN GUYS R NOT SOULMATE.
THIS ONE IS FOR ...DMX
I HAVE BETTER LIFE THAN U EVER WILL.
SO WHY DON'T U GET UR SKINNY ASS OUT OF INTERNET CAFE...AND GET UR SELVE A LIFE.
| Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 06:03 am |
HI BROTHERS AND SISTERS
First I'm really appreciate you bring a such a wonderful topic out here, yasmin i reall agree with you big time sister, the reason why did I agree with your is because it happened to me year ago. I believe love is true thing happening out there veryday , when is your love comes is when you have full respectful , honor , honsty pateince and wisdom, that is the time your love comes . otherwise No
if i touch you something about my personal, I use to love someone who we was together sixe year she really screw up she couldn't thrust me with out thrust nothing can't be impossible, i would say thrust is the key of love, with out it (No)
I'm so pleased you asked me to do this I just hope i was of some smalll help let me know as soon as you hear this topic
with best wish
sencerly: FREEMAN_LB From boston
Lets get down to MAYMUNA
Maymuna if you couldn't found your own love PLEASE don't encourage the other is alright sleeping different guys very single night.
we don't have to wondering like new thing you know.
as you say there guy are dogs you mean you commended us you slave hell No if you thing guy are dogs sister you wrong, we more than that, sorry i proove you wrong
I BELIEVE MEN IN OUT HERE ARE VERY HONOR GUYS
pleas let me know what i can expect . hoping for an early responce from you , we are
i will appreciate an explanation of this topic
sorry about my missing spelling I don't have the time brothers and sister
AND HAPPY RAMADAN DAY ENJOY PEOPLE STAY OUT OF TROUBLE